Its been an incredibly long day, long weekend....
What I will say is after I started using The Betrayal Bond the FOG lifted absolutely immediately..... and I started to put my head and my life and stuff back together very very quickly. It led me to feel strong enough and confident enough and protected enough, that I finally accessed all of the emails myself.
I saw them for myself.
I realized he had admitted gaining access to my online dating profile, stalked me that way.....then, made a face book account, stalked me that way.
Also I counted that he had sent me more than 172 porn links including MILF, fetish, teen and incest porn and more than 50 memes about my "mental state and pathological lying"...
I went to tthe policelast night....tried...wasn't sure i'd get it......but, got a restraining order granted....holy shit...its happening....validation....from authorities!!
I have a court date on December 4th, in which I will have to represent myself. No worries there. I was a Pro Se litigant in my 18month divorce to my abusive ex husband. I'm feeling confident with my knowledge of the law.
Omg..this is happening...My action is moving things along.....omg.
While there, I found out that I absolutely CAN file a criminal complaint of harassment against him separately. So, I showed up this morning filed my affidavit and showed the police officer the emails...... and he proceeded to show me a new law that came in effect in January 2014, in my state regarding cyber harassment.
This complaint very quickly turned into a 4th degree felony indictable charge, to which he was promptly arrested...read his Miranda rights, given a mug shot and fingerprinted.
My understanding from the police officer, when he called to inform me that he was in fact, arrested; ,NP was crying and shaking so hard that he couldn't get fingerprinted right away but had to rest for 10 minutes before doing so.
The whole time speaking about how worried he was that "this was going to affect his ability to become employed and whether or not this will be on his permanent record".... not about the fact that he had been violently sexually harassing me through the internet and much more, for over 33 days.... or that my 17 year old daughter could have stumbled upon these disgusting emails if she had access to my email account while applying for colleges.
In the end, he cared about himself and what he's going to look like..... not about the damage it has done to me or my family.
As for court with the criminal charge? He will be facing the county prosecutor to which it is now: State vs NP....and I will be states witness.
I am exhausted....more info tomorrow....
There is no going back. He is exposed of his true deviance and the MASK is off for everyone to see........and he can't hide from this one.
Wanted to share the good news......please pray that justice will prevail and triumph over anyone who dare say this is a victimless crime.
(BTW....the emails and content were worse than you could ever imagine......)
I will write more tomorrow.
Meantime, rest easy lovebirds.....your time of vindication will come.
Survivors - 1
NP's - ZERO
XO