Welcome to the forums, @ray44.
I've moved your question into a new thread of its own, as it is unrelated to the topic where you posted. Please start a new topic for a new question.
Someone told me that godaddy is the best, a one stop shop, is this the best idea?
Are you talking about using GoDaddy's website builder? I doubt if you would be able to use it for something as complex as a dating site, but I may be wrong; it's not something I've ever used.
However, I would strongly suggest that you consider employing somebody to build this site for you. You will need to be able to keep members' log-in details and personal information secure (and presumably also deal with subscription payments). It doesn't strike me as the kind of site you can cobble together on a website builder and trust to luck.