Happy Passover!
It is clearly Spring time. Yippee! This week we celebrated Earth Day and tonight we celebrate Passover by eating greens (more salt water is necessito por le parsley)!
To honor the holidays we’re posting 10 tips you need to make sure your Modern Jewish Wedding is good for you and our environment.
The ideas in this article come from a a Sierra Club article on how to plan a “Green” wedding–which by its very definition is a Modern Jewish Wedding.
According to the Laws of Moses…
A green wedding begins where any engagement does: with a ring.
Don’t start off on a sour note. Here are beautiful alternatives to diamonds that originate from war zones :
vintage rings, whether a family heirloom or an antique find (you can even have old gold melted down and refashioned)
lab-created diamonds
diamonds mined in peaceful Canada or Australia, like those from Brilliant Earth, Cred Jewellery, or Leber Jewelry’s Earthwise line
diamonds certified as “conflict-free” under the Kimberley Process, an ongoing effort to reform diamond mining in Africa (ask your jeweler the questions in Amnesty International’s buyer’s guide)
one-of-a-kind wooden bands
Location, location, location
Your choice of venue sets the tone for your wedding day–and accounts for a big chunk of the money you’ll be laying out. Spend it wisely!
Consider:
choosing a setting that’s convenient to the most guests to minimize travel impacts
having the ceremony and the reception at the same place, or providing ecofriendly transportation between them
picking a unique local spot–like an art gallery, nonprofit space, organic restaurant or farm, green hotel, botanical garden, or green-roofed building–that supports a cause you believe in
an outdoor setting that will infuse the whole event with a natural sensibility (and require less decorating too!)
arriving at the ceremony in a horse-drawn carriage, cycle rickshaw, or hybrid car
You’re Invited
Your invitation is the first impression guests will get of your green wedding.
Look for:
recycled, handmade, or plantable papers processed chlorine-free and printed with vegetable- or soy-based inks
tree-free paper made out of hemp, banana stalks, bamboo, kenaf, or organic cotton
a printer who will use paper with a high percentage of post-consumer recycled content
opportunities to reduce paper use, like sending a postcard (instead of multi-enveloped notes) for your save-the-date, or using online invitations and a wedding blog to let people know about the bachelor/ette parties, rehearsal dinner, and gift registry
The final fling
Plan bachelor and bachelorette parties that will stay in tune with your eco-friendly wedding:
Stay local (and spend more time with your friends, and less dealing with travel stress).
Travel by train (and start the party early in the bar car).
Indulge in organic wine (or beer) tasting or an organic spa treatment.
Do something low-impact and outdoorsy like a camping, surfing, sailing, kayaking, or fishing trip.
Dress the part…
When it comes to outfitting yourself & the bridal party, green options abound.
You can:
go vintage (and update your look as necessary with tailoring and modern shoes and accessories)
pick clothes made from hemp, bamboo, and organic cotton or silk–or find a dressmaker who will make a one-of-a-kind item out of these sustainable fabrics (men’s suits and shirts come in organic cotton or wool too)
borrow an elegant gown from a stylish friend
buy something you’ll wear again (and let your bridesmaids do the same)
accessorize with a unique recycled purse and/or jewelry
use vegetable dyes on your shoes (or go barefoot for a beach wedding)
accentuate natural beauty with all-natural makeup
donate the dresses to charity after the event
Set the stage
Add beauty and style to your wedding décor, naturally with these options:
opt for organic flowers
find a florist who’s diligent about recycling packaging and will source locally raised flowers
decorate with branches, dried grasses, grains, greens, berries, or live plants (potted or dried arrangements can double as favors)
choose beeswax or soy-based candles over those made with paraffin, a petroleum byproduct
throw biodegradable confetti or organic rose petals instead of releasing butterflies
donate the flowers to a hospital or rest home at the end of the day
Eat, drink, and be merry
Farm to Table is the biggest trend in catering; so, why not use it to showcase local, organic, and seasonal foods.
Don’t forget the organic wine, beer, and spirits, and the free-trade, shade-grown coffee and tea! Some tips:
Ask the venue’s preferred caterers and bakers if they can do your event organically.
Find a local organic restaurant that does off-site catering.
If your wedding won’t be complete without a specific type of food, get married when it’s in season.
Find a caterer you trust to pick the best seasonal selections (since you may not be able to taste those exact items ahead of time).
Consider vegetarian selections and seek out cruelty-free meats and wild, rather than farmed, fish.
Make sure the venue offers comprehensive recycling facilities, and ideally composting too.
Have your cake decorated with organically grown flowers or other natural materials instead of plastic toppers.
Rent real glassware, dishware, and linens instead of using disposables.
Go for a chic eclectic look by mixing and matching thrift-store plates and dishes (and donating them back when you’re done).
Use biodegradable utensils and dishes made out of cornstarch, potatoes, wheat, or sugar cane–if your venue can compost them.
Make arrangements to donate leftover food to a local food bank or homeless shelter.
Lasting memories
Avoid single-use cameras, but ask friends with digi-cams to share their photos with all the guests online or to tag them all with a #hashtag.
Whether you prefer film or digital photographs, look for a photographer who will do digital proofs to save paper and chemicals.
‘Tis better to give…
OK, OK, giving and receiving are both fun! For your gift registry, consider:
asking for gifts to charity instead of material goods
registering with the I Do Foundation or another site that gives a percentage of gift purchases to your chosen cause
registering with stores that offer local, fair-trade, handmade, organic, or other ecofriendly products like Branch, Gaiam, Greenfeet, GreenSage, Ten Thousand Villages, UncommonGoods, or VivaTerra.
registering for outdoor gear or contributions to an ecofriendly honeymoon
creating a custom wish list of ecofriendly items like a fresh-produce subscription from a local farm, organic gardening supplies, organic linens, park and museum passes, gift certificates to organic restaurants, and subscriptions to green publications or memberships in green causes
For your favors, give something your guests will really use and enjoy, not disposable plastic souvenirs. Some ideas:
gourmet organic chocolates or another organic or local food item
attractive bags of fresh or dried organic herbs
seeds in a commemorative container
reusable cloth tote bags
a small plant
natural soaps
soy or beeswax candles
a downloadable playlist of your favorite songs
a small charitable donation in each guest’s name
place cards made of seeded paper that can be planted at home
For your helpful, loyal attendants, you’ll want to up the ante a little, perhaps with:
gift baskets of organic skin-care products
recycled jewelry, wallets, handbags, or drinking glasses
selections of organic coffees, teas, and chocolates
recycled paper journals and stationery
great bottles of organic wine
Begin your new life with a honeymoon that’s light on the Earth. Consider:
going somewhere local (you’re going to be spending a lot of time in that hotel room anyway)
engaging in ecotourism, which can be as rugged or luxurious as you want it to be (find listings that suit your style through Conservation International, National Geographic, Planeta.com, or ResponsibleTravel.com)
taking a trip that benefits an environmental group; perhaps boating in Florida’s Dry Tortugas, birding in Alaska, or walking the Italian Alps with Sierra Club Outings
skipping the cruise and taking a relaxing, romantic train trip
getting around at your destination by renting bikes or taking public transportation (the better to enjoy the sights instead of arguing about your spouse’s driving habits)
staying in a family-run B&B or inn, a luxury teepee or yurt, or a green hotel that’s working to save resources and reduce waste
offsetting your trip’s carbon dioxide emissions
Editor’s Note: This article was written by The Sierra Club and appeared on their blog in 2007. The links are original to the article. I added the images and changed a few headlines to make them more meaningful to Jewish verbiage.
Passover is a perfect time to spread the word and celebrate the religious-environmental movement. Find resources and learn more about Greening Reform Judaism today. Read Conservative Judaism’s article, “Protect vs. Use: Jewish Footprints on the Land.”
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