Ok so im going to try and make this as short as possible but I need help. This is an essentially two part question that Ive decided to let my ego aside and actually ask for help for once. First and foremost a little background info: I am a full time personal trainer and part time paid fitness model. Im confident, usually the funniest person in the room, considered attractive, with a large fan base of predominately women who lust over me (great social proof to subliminally show to other women) Now please PLEASE understand I say this all in NO WAY TO BRAG! I just want you to understand what Im about to get at. Ive always grown up the nerd, im a nice guy/ dork at heart. I dated a woman for for years all throughout high school who like an idiot and all high school relationships I thought I was going to marry. So we strongly believed in saving sex for marriage, (We only had sex twice but did everything else under the sun sexual LOL) We broke up about 2 years ago and ever since then although I haven't had a problem attracting women I HAVE ALWAYS HAD A PROBLEM SEALING THE DEAL. Im not sure if its maybe an underlying fear of not living up sexually to my "superficial persona" due to inexperience or what but with most women we always wind up messing around (not sex) then next thing you know BOOM friend zone. So now for the first question id really like answered. There is this girl I met at my gym I work at, who is obviously interested in me and I think I like her. Sends plenty of signals and even always wants to hang out. Below im posting out text conversation over the past couple of days for you to let me know what the next step should be. Thus far Ive played the game pretty well of seeming like a busy man with many options besides her yet still displaying a sexual interest which she displays back (we workout together) Now all in all she has bailed twice for legitimate reasons (first she was stuck at work and second her strict parents came to visit) but regardless I brush it off like I have better things to do and put her on the back burner (resulting in her constantly going to the gym asking my coworkers if I'm there or my schedule to see me) all in all I feel as if things are going well but I DON'T WANT TO MESS THIS UP and want to know you guys opinions and suggestions on the next step. (I will get to the second question later. PLEASE HELP AND THANK YOU!
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