Ok guys, let me get your take on this.
Met a girl, took her our 3 times, F-closed her on the 2nd time, had her round for dinner again and f-closed her again, took her for a walk in the park on a Sunday...and then things started to go awry.
During the Sunday date, we arranged that she'd come round the following Tuesday for something to eat, and to stay round. We discussed which night to do, and Tuesday was chosen because Thursday she was going to be in London with work (so couldn't stay the wednesday night), I was busy Thursday, and Monday was out because she had to be in London on Tuesday. So anyway, Tuesday was set, she was going to come round when she got back from London.
So we're chatting on Tuesday morning:
Her: Hey, Im on the way to london, how are you? Have you got the food for later yet?
Me: Not yet, im going to go in to town to fetch some food in a bit, anything you fancy?
Her: Apart from you...No aha. My boss has just emailed saying I should stay down in London tonight if I can get a meeting tomorrow to save me from travelling back and forth, is that ok, im really sorry, if not I can stick to our original plan?
Me: Do what you need to do, of course I wanna see you but I understand, just so you know I'll be jealous if you get a nice hotel haha
Her: I'm so sorry I hate letting people down, work is really testing me at the moment, I will make it up to you
Me: stop apologising, i understand and I want you to do well so go and do yourself proud and ill see you when youre back.
Her: Thank you, your so kind. the weather is lovely!
Me: (a couple of hours later) yeh ive been sunbathing lol!
Since then...I've heard nothing.
Now, the whole thing about her only finding out on tuesday morning that she might have to stay in london, struck me as BS when I first read it, because if she had been going down for the day she wouldnt have had an overnight bag packed etc... so straight away my suspicions were aroused, but I hope you guys will agree I played it cool and alpha, and didnt react badly, I just brushed it off and was cool about it.
Anyway, I suspected her of lying about being in London, and when I drove past her house that night on the way back from the gym, I noticed her car was there (she'd told me she was driving to London). So that aroused my suspicions further, but she may have gone on the train or with someone else, so it wasn't conclusive proof she wasnt in london. I then drove past the following morning on my way to work, and her car wasn't there ... proving she wasn't in London, that she had indeed come back from London the night before, and therefore the whole excuse to flake on me was a lie.
So I'm confused, cos everything up to this point had been going well, the date on Sunday went well, even on the Tuesday morning she was flirty with me (when I asked her if there was anything she fancied).
So:
a) how to react going forward?
b) critique my game on this occasion
c) What is going on with this girl? Why create such a lie just to get out of something simple
So far my reaction has been total radio silence, not text or called her since the last text I sent. All this happened yesterday.