Basics of Planing a Wedding
There’s a lot more to weddings than anyone can imagine, it’s not the magic of emotions and happiness of the two souls uniting, it’s about everything they want perfect for their most perfect moment. Take it up right from the start of the wedding planning to their perfect honeymoon destination it all has to be a stunner for them.
Bring all the factors together to get the best wedding planned out for yourselves or you family, here are some factors you need to follow up when planning a wedding. Each wedding is totally different from the personal perspective of the bride and groom and not to forget each religion and tradition has lot of significance making it different from others. There are some of the best wedding Planners to help you out at this to save your time and get you out of confusion The Knot and Indianweddingsite
Wedding Traditions and Rituals around the World
I wouldn’t want to add all the different rituals of different religions, but a few to highlight as it may be an important part while planning a wedding. Indian weddings have many sub categories taking it from different religions apart from the basic Christian weddings or Jewish weddings.
These are the ones which ring the bells of sober and classy weddings taking it from the earliest era to now, not much have changed apart from the fashion and décor of course. Some traditions and rituals vary from place to place like some of the US weddings and British weddings may differ to some traditions of a Canada wedding to that of a Chinese Christian wedding.
Chinese weddings have their brides flaunting in 3 bride dresses, first a traditional chines outfit in Red, then into a Christian white wedding gown and finally into a reception gown.
Indian wedding has a tradition to wear Red as their bridal wear and not White at all, as it’s considered a colour of mourning (widows wear this colour) and red symbolises an auspicious color. Henna is applied to the hands and feet of the bride as a ritual of weddings.
Jewsih weddings have a tradition of breaking the glass which is smashed by the groom under his foot for which it is known as good luck for the couple
Royal weddings have bridesmaid to be young ladies or girls rather than those elder.
African weddings have the essence of their tradition, a bride wear’s her western white dress and changes into the traditional tribal dress after the ceremony.
Russian wedding rituals makes the groom to work before taking the bride to the ceremony, has to do all what the family and friends intend him to do at the moment before they can move to the ceremony.
In Italy, weddings are always on a Sunday as other days are reserved as bad luck bringers.
A Sweden wedding would have a bride to wear a pretty crown of myrtle leaves and walk into the church as a couple.
A Pakistani wedding as the bride to be wearing colourful traditional wedding dress and the groom, and these two are not allowed to have a gaze at each other until the ceremony is completed by agreeing on marrying and signatures.
There are more different traditions and wedding customs, each different for each region to religion and caste, but all have something in common from the main ceremony to the after wedding celebration that is décor, catering, and honeymoon plans of the couple.
Let’s start with some of the bases of planning a wedding taking it from clothing to venues.
Wedding Wear for the Bride, Groom and Family
The Bride and Groom need to fix a certain budget for their bridal wear or say wedding dresses to party wear. This will be easier for them to plan a budget wedding if this is one or it will be easier to manage the next requirements once they filter out their choices to avoid wasting more time on selection and seeing options which don’t work for them.
Every wedding has a different wear starting from a Hindu (Indian wedding) to a wedding which has been set up on and destination. Planning your destination and date of the wedding is prior most as to then plan next as per season of wedding and place like the resort, beach wedding to royal palaces weddings. This will work as per the concept or theme of the wedding and, therefore your apparels are to be matched up with this.
Wedding wear for the Bride
The bride’s attire needs to be the best outfit even it comes to choosing from the best dressed between the Man and the Wife :D, well yes, a special wear specially for the bride which means that she needs to have an eye-catching outfit that stuns the guests.
Christian Brides
Wearing a White dress is the traditional and modern attire but let’s add a bit of more flavour. The new looks in gowns and dresses with a basic to choose from would be in colours to patterns. Find all the latest Gowns on House Of Brides
Lace gowns which have a pretty yoke and transy shoulder effect to the pretty sleeves in lace.
Draped and fuller ball gowns are back in glamour
Tulle gowns from waist or from knees and trumpet cut to mermaid cut.
Sleek sheath dresses in chiffon or lacey finishes
Embellished dresses in statement places
Indian Brides
They have more choices and, of course depends from region to regions and a big NO to white colour attire, Shopping a designer wear is common but also places like G3fashions
Lehenga Choli in designer forms, heavy handwork to sober simple work lehengas
Sarees in bright hot shades and heavy work for the ceremony
Salwar Kameez – Anarkali suits in lehenga style to Punjabi and Patiala suits in heavy work.
Different ceremonies have different wears like a mehndi function may have salwar kameez and a reception may have lehenga choli worn by the brides.
Chinese Brides
Well, they have a custom of wearing their traditional dress followed by the gowns of their choices.
A red silk traditional dress for the wedding
A white gown for the church wedding
A cocktail dress or custom coloured ball room gown for the Reception
African & Tribal weddings
The wedding takes place in their traditional apparel and drapes and later changes to gowns
A white wedding dress and later changes to their traditional wear or cocktail gowns
Pakistani Brides
Wearing their traditional Shararas and also now the new trendy kind of salwar suits to lehengas have also been in the customs.
A traditional Green sharara which is has flared bottoms and short kameez in heavy work.
A long anarkali dress with sharara bottom or lehenga bottoms.
Lehenga choli with a long corset blouse or either long kameez top over this.
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Wedding wear for the Grooms
Yes, the awesome tuxedo never fails for this and it is the classic modern wear for grooms. However some weddings of the US and UK different with their Groom’s attire, as some want a rustice wedding look to a classic long tuxedo in the Royal Weddings. Yet all depends on the customs, traditions and choice of theme.
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Coat suits in black to darker shades with classic patterns to new designer style cuts. Indian weddings also have coat suits in stand collars with brocade, velvet or the lapel style coats and jodhpuri pants as a designer coat suit.
Summer weddings are always great to organize and dressing becomes simpler, with maybe a linen trousers and crisp shirt in tints or a light blazer if it’s a beach wedding. The wear can go simpler and semi-casual with pocket square and colours matching them.
Rustic wedding styles attire with a vintage effect of dressing a waistcoat and suspenders. Pretty awesome to look smart and vintage as the Bridegroom.
Also Indian weddings and Pakistani weddings have their grooms look traditional with Sherwani in traditional brocades to new modern styles of brocades and plain silks.
Indo westerns in Indian ethnic wear is also very common, has the vibes of contemporary styles like Patiala style sherwanis, open jacket indo western, waistcoat sets, dhoti suit indo westerns and more.
Footwear for the Groom
Wedding wear for Family and Kids
The family members are ought to wear something that connects them to the whole wedding theme and look gorgeous themselves, be it from kids wedding wear to bridesmaid dresses, Best Man attire, etc.
A new look with bridesmaid dresses in sleek gowns to those well-draped gowns are preferred best in pastel hues to tints.
Short dresses in tulle to a-line dresses for the bridesmaid to a resort or beach wedding is very trendy.
Awesome bell dresses to tulle dresses for flower girls. Sweet flared up frocks in party look to wedding frocks are bets for kids to add the wedding charm and also colour.
Get a realistic look with Waistcoat and suit up for your Groom’s wedding, men can be in waistcoats as per the theme or also throw on a blazer with trousers and dress shirt.
Yes, of course, the tuxedo is still a great option and coat suits as well.
Indian wedding guests can try out sherwanis just in a designer concept for their friend’s or brother’s wedding. Also waistcoat sets are pretty options for a wedding of the family.
Wearing pathani suit or indo western style kurta suit is great for all wedding ceremonies in an Indian and Pakistani wedding.
Kids can dress up in their favourite ethnic wear in an Indian wedding with Choli Suits to Salwar kameez and Gowns.
The mother of the bride can be spotting pretty sarees in heavy silks or an embroidered designer saree. Friends of the bride and sisters can be dressed in wedding lehengas and anarkali dresses to salwar kameez of heavy look to pretty indo style salwar suits.
Wedding Décor
This is one of the most important plan to handle as it has the most value related to the wedding ambience and environment which will set up the mood and joy for the people coming at the wedding and for those two souls. Get your wedding decor planned
Get all the location and venue finalised early as possible as everything will be planned accordingly from attire to colour story. There those basics to always have for any kind of wedding from Christian chapel wedding to the Indian resort weddings. Here are the basic and easiest ways to plan your Wedding Décor.
Canopy and drapes are the very much planned set up for indoor to outdoor weddings. A simple canopy with lacey drapes standing in isolation also plays a very important role. An entrance full of drapes on the sides to ceiling is a good way to add ambience as per the theme.
Lights are the main focus of evening weddings, yet they come in handy also for a backyard or barn wedding to halls and convention hall at resorts. A single Christmas light can make a lot of difference and use these wisely. Candles on the other hands are also very bold and give wonderful effects, Indian weddings with candles are the stars of the evening.
Centre pieces for your tables and main venues are a must. This brings a good gaze at the wedding, using the centre piece of the dining area as the dessert section or the refreshment counter in the centre or suppose a pretty big bouquet is all good and helps improve décor.
Sitting arrangement can be set up in different modes and angles. The spiral sitting arrangement for the wedding ceremony to the round tables set up randomly at the dining area. An Indian wedding can have the Indian sitting by the Mandaps for the ceremony and there’s lot more to try, See them here.
Mandap décor is found in Indian Hindu weddings where the ceremony is to take place. There are many ways of decorating this as this can be done with flowers, a canopy of flowers to the built up pillars of ancient times a decorating this as a royal look. For destination weddings to others better hire a decorer – Q.Events India one of the very best.
Wedding Catering
This varies from kind of wedding tradition to the venue and season of the wedding. But there are some basic tips to remember when arranging a catered menu for the wedding. Also view this link here of Caterers for Indian wedding in USA http://www.maharaniweddings.com/indian-wedding-vendors/usa/all-areas/catering
If serving refreshments, remember to have chillers as per the theme or concept from a proper serving counter to a self-serve display that is practical and is always at the starting of the dine area.
Do have appetizers/starters which stay warm or if they are meant to be cold that means they should be very well presentable and match the mood and theme of the wedding. A beach wedding may have seafood appetizers and a Pakistani wedding may have Kababs as theirs.
The main course should be well set up as per the theme of catering, whether you require a buffet dinner or a well main course meal served at the tables (for each table). May want to have a look at the catering services for Indian Weddings here
Dessert is always the cherry on the cake of the wedding catering, yes the cake scores 10/10 but there should be more than just cake for dessert.
Wedding Photography
I would love to get into the detail of this, but here I will just be mentioning some of the things to keep in mind while planning the wedding photography. We want just everything to be covered up in one time wedding day, so make sure you have had explained your personal fav shots to your photographer. Tips to best Wedding Photography and here are some of the top Photography sites to see Shaadigrapher , FotoShaadi
The shot of the bride and groom need to be exclusive but do have some close friends to family to join in to make those photos better.
Use of lights, even if they are dim, they will bring the photos to life.
Capturing your wedding candid moments.
Outfits and other smaller details of the wedding from flowers to shoes and table set ups.
And very important to take clear shots of the wedding ceremony to all rituals, customs to be followed, leave a good empty space for the photographer to adjust.
Honeymoon Tours
Every couple must have had a dream of their own honeymoon and say some of them just fulfilled them just the way they dreamt of it. All you need is a little planning and pre-bookings of course and savings to have the best dream tour as the newlyweds. You may consult travel sites to help you out, here are the basics kind to log on to Thomas Cook Packages
You want to plan according to your wedding date, remember to leave the next day and if you are catching a flight, be sure you will be on time so save some extra time after the wedding. If you plan to have international tours be sure you have everything needed as per the location and climate and all bookings are reserved from travel, transportation to accommodations. Well this also applies if you are going to have a domestic honeymoon tour yet, of course choose a location you both haven’t seen and is at least greater miles away from home.
Best places to travel for a Honeymoon
Beaches and Islands
Most visited honeymoon destinations are the beaches and islands all over the world. Bora Bora, Maldives, Fiji and Thailand beaches are just the places to give you a feel of heaven on land.
Urbanised Cities/Romantic Cities
Not many prefer these on their first honeymoon, but they are very much fun if you love exploring the places with your loved one. Europe is a perfect example for this, Italy, Paris, Greece, etc.
Adventure – Deserts and Gaming
These are for those sporty couples who love gaming and adventure. Las Vegas to the Safari Jungle. Anything you choose which will keep you both happy and being adventurous for the whole tour. South Africa, Australia, Brazil, Dubai, are some of the best places for this.
Mountains and Altitude
Yes, like some love beaches others love the chilly and cold weathers and for that the North is a great place to be. Northern Lights are the most attractive to see and why not as a couple so Finland, Alaska, Himalayas Ranges and some like these are great.
Cruises
Cruise honeymoon is one which everyone in a lifetime should always take, and there are certain cruise tours all over the world. Watching the star gazing skies from the ocean is a different untold experience and dining over the seas is a wonderful experience. Take a cruise tour from your nearest possible place, Refer to this site here to check out the Cruise Tours.
Honeymoon Tours within a Country
All these above mentioned can be got even while travelling within a country if you have a smaller budget and still can get the best. Not all countries have bays and deserts together, but some do and why not take use of that. India Honeymoon Tour Packages with Yatra.com
India has beaches, deserts, forests, urbanisation to royal ancient buildings and islands to visit. It’s very common and obvious that a couple of the north will pay a visit to the Southern country and vice versa. Islands of India none other than the romantic Andaman Nicobar Islands to the Lakshadweep Islands which have all the best-developed amenities for travel. See more options of honeymoon in India.
That closes the basic things of planning a wedding. Hope this article helps get you easy and successful wedding planning for any culture and religion.
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