2012-07-02

On white nationalism sites there is growing anger at black men who date white women. In the past year it has even spilled over into the comment sections of non-racist blogs. It appears that some white men don’t like the idea that they have to compete with men who, on average, take more naturally to game principles than they do. Their rage is growing in lockstep with a diminishing pool of attractive and slim white women.

I think their anger is misplaced. They shouldn’t get mad at black men—they should get mad at black women. The average black woman is America is not like this…

She’s more like this…

While black men have a preference for girls with a big booty and thick thighs, they don’t have a preference for land whales. As fat as white girls are getting, they are still not as fat as black women, meaning that you’ll have more black men crossing over. This has less to do with racial preference than beauty preference, and I’m not even considering the aggressive and entitled attitude that many black women have.

If white nationalists were serious about black men not dating whites, they would start a nutritional non-profit aimed at the urban cores of the country to help black women lose weight. Once black men find their women to be more attractive, they will be less inclined to date outside their race. I guarantee you that if most black girls looked like Rihanna, white women would suddenly wonder where all the brothers went. Even I would switch to dating black women if that was the case.

One of the reasons I identify with black men is because I see a lot of parallels with them dating white girls and American men such as myself dating foreign girls…

American men are tired of enduring obese American women with attitude.

Black men are tired of enduring obese black women with attitude.

American man has a gateway sexual experience with a foreign girl that tells him things could be better.

Black man has a gateway sexual experience with a white girl that tells him things could be better.

American man figures out what he has to do to be more attractive to foreign women, like soften his game or learn a new language.

Black man figures out what he has to do to be more attractive to white women, like adjust his slang or tighten his style.

American man receives hate from foreign nationalists who don’t like him dating their women.

Black man receives hate from white nationalists who don’t like him dating their women.

American man realizes he no longer has to date American women to be happy.

Black man realizes he no longer has to date black women to be happy.

Even in Jim Crow days when black men were murdered for talking to white women, they still did it. The reason is because men can become very determined when chasing their sexual ideal of happiness. The sometimes threatening hate I’ve received coming out of Colombia and Estonia won’t slow me down because I’m convinced that dating American women again would be worse than getting waterboarded. The only question is when black men will jump again from white women to foreign women. If posts on the travel forum are any indication, they’ve already started.

In the end, the racists and haters cannot win, even if they resort to violence. Estonian men and white men either have to learn how to compete or just drop out of the game entirely. Unfortunately, as American women (both black and white) continue to decline, xenophobic and racist mudslinging will only increase from the sexual losers who are unable to adjust in today’s hypercompetitive dating environment.

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