Energy Tools, When Words are Not Enough…
Business is about creating connections with a whole range of different people: customers and clients, suppliers, designers, investors, staff, and so on. The richer the networks, the more ease you have in your business and the more possibilities become available to you. It is also through connection that you have great communication, which allows things to flow smoothly.
You can read all the advice that’s available, but sometimes words are just not enough. And, it’s much easier to create connection from energy tools, than you can from only speaking.
Create Connection Using Energy Manipulation
If you’re looking for a new job, or new clients, there are four effective energy tools from Access Consciousness® you can learn to use and have fun with them. But you must be willing to manipulate to create a connection. Manipulation is not bad or wrong.
Babies, and little kids, manipulate with energy all the time to get what they want; that’s the kind of manipulation I’m talking about. Also, recognize that if you’re not willing to manipulate, you’ll end up being manipulated.
Here are the four ways to use energy to create a connection, depending on the situation and the people you’re dealing with. It’s easy but it takes a little practice.
Four Connection Creating Energy Tools
1. People who put up barriers
Have you ever been in a situation where you talked and talked to someone but felt like you just weren’t getting through? It’s highly likely they had put up energetic barriers so they didn’t have to receive what you were saying. There is a way to create a connection with them.
What you do is you pull masses of energy from them through your entire body and your being. You don’t have to set an intention, just ask. It’s almost like you’ve got a rope that’s going from their heart to you and through you. When you perceive the energy flowing, ask it to equalize.
Do this in a meeting and you’ll get their attention. You’ll notice they have less of a barrier to what you’re saying. This tool is designed to get people’s attention so that everyone’s present and aware of what’s going on.
You can’t pull too much energy or hurt anyone. In fact, when you pull energy from people, they start to feel better as it increases the flow into them.
2. People who are on neutral
There are people who are always on the fence and don’t want to make a commitment. What are you going to do if you’re in a meeting with someone whose attitude is let’s-sit-back-and-see? You flow energy to them. Once that’s occurring you ask for the flow to equalize.
It’s much easier than only giving reasons and justifications for why they should sign a contract, or make a deal with you. You’ll notice that they start talking because now you’ve got their attention. You’ve become so present in their world they can’t ignore you. That’s how you get them to make a commitment.
3. People who drain the life out of you
Some people suck in our energy to get our attention. I have a friend who I used to visit. When it was time for me to go home, she’d get upset and cry because she didn’t want me to leave. It made me pull away, which is what most people do when someone’s sucking their energy.
The way to handle these people is by flowing energy to them. With my friend, before it was time to leave her house, I’d start flowing masses of energy to her. She got so filled up with energy she didn’t cry when I left anymore.
This is a great tool to use around the workplace. If someone is overly needy, flow energy to them. Pulling away doesn’t work; they’ll run after you faster! You can use the same tool with your kids.
If I’m traveling overseas, which is something I do 10 months of the year, I’ll flow energy to my son who’s 11. I fill him up with energy and show him that I’m always available for him.
4. People who are pushy
Most telemarketers push energy at you and usually that makes you want to get cranky and hang up. How do you create a connection with pushy salespeople? Pull masses and masses of energy from them. They will either fall flat on their face or tell you why you shouldn’t buy their products. I’ve seen it happen, it’s amazing!
You can use this tool with every single person in the entire world that owes you money. If you have a list of debtors, take it out and start pulling masses of energy from each person. Then ask for the payment to physically actualize now. You know for yourself that if you have a pile of bills, you first pay the one that’s demanding your attention.
Practice using this tool, but don’t be vested in things turning out the way you want them to – or it will not work. You must allow it to be the way it is.
Create Connection with Energy Tools
You can do all four energy flows at the same time, so long as you practice. With more practice, you start to recognize the flows. But you don’t have to torment yourself.
Whenever you’re about to walk into a room, a meeting, or your family home just ask, what energy do I need to be to create connection and greater possibilities?
About the Author
Simone Milasas is a dynamic speaker, leader, and serial entrepreneur who travels the globe demonstrating how to do business from a place of joy. She has been at the forefront of cutting-edge business creation and development for over two decades. Simone is the founder and creator of Joy of Business, as well as the Worldwide Coordinator for Access Consciousness®, which operates in over 170 countries. Simone is the author of the internationally acclaimed book Joy of Business (currently available in 11 languages), and is releasing her second book ‘Getting Out of Debt Joyfully’ in November 2016. You can sign up for her free video series, Putting the Fun Back in Business, here: http://www.accessjoyofbusiness.com/fun