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This is actually sadly relevant. I had a lecture this summer about sign languages and Deaf culture and when I was finished, one hearing girl from the audience stayed behind to ask me some more question.
She asked me: “And your parents use sign language, right?” Like it was the most obvious thing in the world and why is she even asking this, of course my parents must know sign language.
“No… They don’t, actually.”
“And how do you communicate, then?”
“Talking?”
“But… isn’t that complicated for you?”
“It is, sometimes.”
“They probably didn’t have time for it…” she said. And I haven’t the heart to tell her that my father was offered sign language courses several times, that I offered to teach them some signs and that they always refused.
But I did told her: “It is not that rare. Most of deaf people I know have hearing parents who don’t sign.”
It’s the sad truth. People are willing to pay for surgeries to “repair” their children, but they are not willing to learn something to communicate with them.
i’d like to add onto this with my own personal experience, too. i was born hearing, but as soon as i was diagnosed as HoH, my parents didn’t do anything to learn ASL. they were quick to put me in classes, but they wouldn’t when i suggested to them that they take the classes with me so that we could learn.
i’ve tried to teach my mom how to sign numerous times, but she always says that “you can’t teach an old dog new tricks,” to which i tell her that she can learn, she just doesn’t want to. which is true. neither of my parents want to learn how to sign, but they want me to be able to hear perfectly so they don’t have to repeat themselves.
little do they know that their frustration with me not being able to hear them would be solved if they would just learn how to sign. maybe signing something to me once instead of repeating themselves four times and then getting mad would be more beneficial.
I’m absolutely shocked at this, it’s never crossed my mind that many parents wouldn’t even try to meet their hard of hearing kids halfway.
That is so horrifying and rude omg
Also worth noting that parents can learn sign a hell of a lot easier than deaf kids can learn speech, simply on the virtue that hearing (and sighted) people have full access to a visual language, as Deaf people do.
Okay…well..to add my 2 cents in here, I’m actually banned from using sign language in my foster parents house because they think that it will make my speech go since I don’t use it all the time and I get in major trouble if I try to sign, even in private, or even if they catch me watching sign language videos or videos with character that use sign. My biggest example of this is when I was in highschool and I was watching Sweet Nothing In My Ear for the first time and my mother caught me and she took away my computer and wouldn’t let me have it for about a month…and then I had to explain to her why all my grades had dropped dramatically and when I told her it was because I couldn’t do online work because she had the computer she called me a liar.