A little background: I’m 5’8, athletic build, average looking, black male. I’d consider myself about a 6. I moved to Korea after college in August 2011 due to the bad U.S. economy and no real job prospects at home, and I lived there on and off for a total of 3 years between 2011-2015. So some of my LRs below are outdated, but I just recently discovered this site, and I figure it’s better late than never.
I nailed a total of 10 K- chicks, a few dozen more if you count p4p, but I’ll just focus on the regular girls here. Before you talk about how low that number is for 3 years, keep in mind that I was in a LTR for one of those years, and my final year there I stopped trying to get with K-girls and just focused on p4p because they weren’t worth the hassle. So really those lays were within about a 1 year time period.
Getting the Korean Flag:
Before going to Asia, I had been telling all my friends at home before I left that I would have a year-long drought because I don’t find Asian women attractive at all. That quickly changed when I got off the plane. I had instant yellow fever when I saw how dolled up K-chicks get plus those mini skirts, and I was hooked. I definitely hadn’t seen Asian chicks that look like this in America.
I met all the teachers in my city the first day and they were cool. My first weekend, we made the one-hour bus trip into Seoul to party in Itaewon and Hongdae. I got a number from a cute Filipina. Chatted up some Japanese students, but nothing came of those.
My main wing knew I had been trying desperately to get a taste of some kimchi-flavored cooch, so my 2nd weekend in Korea all the expat teachers in my town are drinking at the sports bar. I’m completely hammered. He introduces me to the bar owner’s daughter (who had lived in Australia for 2 years, so she speaks good English), 6, cute face, a bit of acne though, but a nice bubble butt 25 y/o, and I have no idea what I was saying to her but she wouldn’t stop blushing. Definitely had her hooked. Got her number.
That Sunday my wing texts me and says he’s having coffee with her at Dunkin and tells me to come out. They were good friends because she had already friend-zoned him because she’s not into Indian guys (He’s Indian-British). So I go to Dunkin’ and he makes up some excuse about how he has to go do something and we’re alone. We leave and we get dinner together at a Korean BBQ place and then I tell her that I haven’t figured out how to use my washer yet because it’s all in Korean (true) and ask her to come over to my place to show me. She does.
We get to my place. We talk for a while. I kiss her. No resistance. I’m on top of her and we’re making out heavy, but when I try to pull her pants off, she tells me she’s not going to do it unless I’m looking for a serious relationship and not “just fun”. I’m thinking, we had one fucking date and we’ve only hung out twice and she already wants a relationship. Here’s the part I’m not proud of: I tell her okay. My 21 year old self did anything to get laid.
I get her naked and she has these really thick, long nipples. Never seen any like them. I later found out that a lot quite a few Korean chicks have extremely thick nipples. She wasn’t as hairy as all the expats had been warning me about Koreans though.
I later found out the reason she wanted commitment was because she had been banging this Canadian dude a few months earlier and she liked him but stopped seeing him since he refused to commit to her.
So there it was. 12 days in and I had my Korean flag, but I also unfortunately had a girlfriend. Oh well, she broke up with me a few weeks later when she went through my Facebook and saw I was telling girls I’m single, but we still remained FWBs throughout my time in Korea.
UN Gyopo
I meet this cool dude outside UN in Itaewon. College student. 19. His dad is in the military and he’s lived in Korea for years. Turns out he’s partying alone that night so we party together. He’s my wing. I spot this petite spinner, about 4’11 thin, long hair and I open her. She asks me where I’m from and I say America. She goes away for a while and a couple minutes later her gyopo (Korean-American) friend comes up to me and tells me I need to stop lying I’m American to get girls. After going back and forth about how I’m not one of the many African guys in that club lying to get girls, I show her my Texas ID. Turns out she lived in Texas too so we hit it off. She’s a solid 7, slightly taller than me about 5’9. My wing is now talking to the spinner.
We dance and I grab her ass and go for the kiss, but she tells me to stop because her friend is one of those innocent Korean girls and she doesn’t want her to see her being all slutty. My wing isn’t feeling the spinner at all but he keeps her occupied just so I can get with the friend. We all decide to leave and head to King’s Club. We dance some more. We’re both wasted and I tell her straight up that I’m taking her to a love motel tonight. She says she wants to but can’t leave her friend. Somehow a little while after that the friend decides it’s time to go but my chick says she wants to stay and puts friend in the cab. My wing leaves and me and gyopo bounce to a motel. Mission accomplished.
I later realized I didn’t get her number, only Facebook, and by the time I checked in the morning she had already deleted me. Clearly post-sex regret.
K-Cupid DUFF:
I signed up for Korean Cupid. Start talking to this chick, 20, college student. From her pics looks like about a 7. We spend about a week talking on Kakao. We add each other on Facebook. Pics look good. She’s calling me “babe” and then she invites me to stay with her for the weekend at her place in Jeollanamdo. I think it was about a 4 hour bus ride from Seoul and when I’m like an hour away, she texts something like “soon you will see real me”. That’s when my red flags are going up.
Sure enough I get to her place and she’s 80kg. Turns out I overlooked that in her K-cupid profile (or she changed it later) and all the pictures on her Facebook were either old pics or done at an angle where you can’t see her body. But I was horny as hell so I didn’t care at that point.
She cooked me dinner. We ate. I tried to kiss her after dinner. Denied. Later we’re watching Pink Panther while laying on her mini mattress and I kiss her. No resistance. As I’m kissing her, I don’t know why but I asked her if she wants it and she says yeah. We fucked a couple of times during the weekend. Never saw her again after that.
Curious Language Exchange Student:
I was on a language exchange site chatting with this chick who is moving to Canada in the next 6 months. 6 with a nice rack C cup really light skin. She’s looking for someone to teach her about Western culture. We met up and had coffee, told her a lot of things she needs to know about Canada. Talked about some of the differences between the West and there. Just friendly conversation.
Went on two more dates. Nothing really happened except holding hands and the 3rd date she brought a friend to meet me and we all went bowling.
4th date, she takes the bus over to my city. I take her to see the outlet mall. We got some food, and then back to my place to “relax”. We’re laying on my bed watching TV and after like 20 minutes I just went for the kiss. No real buildup. She obviously knew it was coming. We’re in the dark watching TV alone at my place. We make out for like 10 minutes. I kiss her neck and then back up to making out again. I start feeling her ass and going inside to feel her ass over her panties. Then the minute I start trying to get her pants off she says no we can’t and I ask why and she says we have to use a condom. I pull out a condom and she’s out of excuses. She just says “Ok. Hold on.” Goes to the bathroom for a sec and bam. She had never given head so I had to teach her that later.
She later admitted the “condom” excuse was because she was nervous to do it with a foreigner and her only boyfriend she had (Korean) never used them and she just assumed I wouldn’t have any either and we wouldn’t be able to do it. When I pulled one out she was stunned and had no choice but to let me.
BBC Lover
Met this chick on language exchange. 5, but really nice body. You don’t see bodies like this on Koreans. Nice B cup and she fills in a pair of jeans perfectly, though by Korean standards she’s just fat. I used to tell her she has an Asian face with a black girls’s body.
We meet up at Gangnam and head to a Chinese restaurant. She’s really bubbly and loves to laugh, really outgoing. She told me she had a language exchange partner who was black and they had been friends with benefits. I sense that this chick has a bit of a freaky side and suggest we go to a multi-bang (a private room with multiple things- Wii, karaoke, DVDs, etc.) and we watch a movie.
While watching a movie I am moving closer to her, she seems okay with it, so I rest my head on her chest. No reaction. So I start rubbing her thigh and stomach and eventually touch her tit and I look at her and she’s stunned but in a good way because she didn’t expect it. A pleasant surprise.
We start making out and I’m fingering her and to my surprise she takes my dick out and starts sucking. She gives amazing dome. I tried to fuck her but she said she didn’t feel comfortable doing it in there so we get a motel and take a shower together. Then I eat her out and fuck her. She is the loudest girl I’ve fucked to date. She was a screamer.
Squirter
I met this chick on K-cupid. At some points she had a bf or timing was just bad so
we had actually been talking for like 7 months before we actually met. The comfort level was instant when we finally met. Solid 7, b cups, really squinty eyes (huge turn on for me).
She had just broken up with her BF and we met up in Hongdae. Got dinner and had some soju. We both got a little tipsy. We went outside to one of those things where you hit the balloon with a dart and win a prize. Won her a bear. Some Korean chick kept laughing and telling me how cute I was while playing, so that won me some points with her. That Korean chick’s foreign BF didn’t seem too pleased.
We went to Noraebang (Karaoke) and sang until almost midnight and then she had to catch her train back to Incheon. No k-close just kino. Then after a few days texting, she tells me flat out “I want to sleep with you”.
Next time we met up and went out to eat and when I insisted we go to a love motel she said that she didn’t mean “sleep” in a sexual way. She literally wanted to sleep in the bed with me and cuddle and said I had a dirty mind. Yeah, right. I take her to a motel. Get her naked and she’s shaved (really rare for Korean chicks). Her pussy fit so perfectly around my dick, not too tight like most Koreans but far from loose. It was heaven in there and she was a squirter. She swallows and loves it. Told me my cum tasted good compared to other guys. Loved a good pounding and knows how to suck a dick. Her pussy is like an ocean it’s so damn wet. You have no idea what I would give just to fuck her one more time. The best I’ve had by far.
She later told me she was afraid of black people growing up. She had a black foreign teacher in elementary school that terrified her and it wasn’t until she went to Hawaii in college that she opened up to dating black guys. She also told me that the notorious Quincy Black (teacher who filmed porn with Koreans,one underaged, and posted on XVideos) tried to get with her on K-cupid but she wasn’t into black guys at that point and rejected him. She dodged a major bullet there.
My Ex
While I was banging squirter I started seeing another girl I met on language exchange. She had just got back from spending a year in Canada a few months prior and was looking for a language partner so she won’t forget all the English she just learned. HB8. Really nice, juicy round ass but A cup.
The first couple of dates we just talked. Went out to eat. Went bowling. Third date I decide to take her drinking. We both get completely hammered and play 21 questions. As we’re playing I start asking her questions like “do you find me attractive?” “do you want me to sit next to you?” and after each question she gets weak like she wants to say no but she knows she’ll be lying so she just like smiles and I sit next to her and she says no don’t sit here; I don’t trust you right now. I’m drunk. But she’s smiling the whole time. So my next question I ask if she wants me to kiss her. She’s kind of smiling and I can already tell she wants it so we’re making out in our own little private booth but the doors are glass so the people in the next booth can see us.
After like 15 minutes of making out, I tell her we need to be alone because everyone is watching. We go to a motel and we’re making out as soon as we get into the room. Her clothes come off and she is insanely tight. Mission accomplished. I ended up falling in love with her and we stayed together for a year.
My white friends were kind of jealous because they were never able to pull a chick that hot and white dudes usually get much better quality in Korea. She was one of the rare ones who was only attracted to dark skin. Her ex-boyfriend in Canada was a South Asian guy.
Ajumma
So I’m on my way home from a date with my girl. I’m seated next to this older lady (late 40s) on the express bus. She tells me she’s a travel writer, divorced and has no kids and shows me some pictures she’s just taken in Itaewon. We talk for the whole hour ride bus home about travel, adventure, Korea, etc. and after we arrive she offers to drop me off at my apartment. I told her I live like a four-minute walk away from the bus terminal and it wasn’t necessary but she insisted. She also insisted on taking me to dinner the next night.
At this point, I’m thinking she’s just a friendly older lady who is just interested in foreigners since she writes and takes pictures in different countries for a living. So the next day we have dinner. She knows the waitresses there and she keeps telling them to look at my eyes and how nice they are and they’re all commenting on how handsome I am (they’re all middle aged).
After dinner, she suggests we watch a movie at the theatre but there are no English movies showing at that time so she suggests we go back to her place. Again really didn’t think anything of it, at this point.
We get to her place and her only TV is in her bedroom so she connects her laptop to the TV and plays a movie on it and we watch on her bed. About 40 minutes into the movie I put my arm around her and she touches me too on my chest. I later go for a kiss but she tells me it’s not right. After a few more minutes I try again and she gives me a couple of light kisses on the lips.
I start kissing her neck to get her horny and we start making out. After a few minutes I’m playing with her boobs and I’m able to get her top and bra off but when I try to get her pants off she stops me. I keep kissing her and dry humping to get her wet and I try to take them off a few minutes later and succeed. Her panties are soaking wet. I mean drenched, and now I got her naked and no resistance, that is until I take my pants off, she sees my cock and starts telling me how it’s too big and it would hurt her and basically saying that thing ain’t going anywhere near me.
I managed to play with her pussy and keep her quiet long enough to slide it in but she keeps complaining so I managed to force myself to cum in like 30 seconds right as she was able to reach down and pull it out of her and tell me we can’t do it and “next time.”
She sent me more messages wanting to hang out and telling me my girlfriend is “not good for me” but I never saw her again.
Bi- one night stand:
This chick emailed me on language exchange while I was at work and since I was bored I emailed her right back immediately and we ended up chatting the whole day on Skype. At this point I had moved closer to the Seoul area and it turns out she lived just like two subway stops away from me and she wanted to meet up that night. I knew I was getting laid once she asked “do you live alone?”
She had a really nice round ass. B cup. 6. She came back to Gimpo. We ate some dalkgalbi (chicken) and she had some beer. I knew she was pretty loose because she told me she had banged quite a few foreigners and just smashed a guy a couple of days ago and it was a one night stand. She also said she didn’t really enjoy sex that much and told me how she’s never really been able to cum from sex. She’s bi so it was fun to be able to point out girls and see if she like them. Never been able to do that with another girl.
Anyway, took her home. She said she has to be drunk before she can have sex. Waited for her to finish her beer. Asked me to get her another one. I went to the store. Then she had to finish that bottle and take a shower. At this point I just wanted to go to sleep because I had to work in the morning and it was like 1:30 and I thought she was stalling. So I’m about to fall asleep and she finally comes out of the shower and gets on top of me. Man, she really really knew how to ride.
K-Cupid Christian Chick:
This is around the point I was going on lots of dates, striking out, and started getting fed up with K-chicks and all their BS (childishness, boring, clicky, prudish, vanity) and I thought let me forego looks and try to just meet an average looking chick that would be nice to be around.
Met this chick 27. D cups. Short hair. Face about a 4 honestly. Slightly Chubby but not fat.
We met up near Bukchon Hanok Village. We had lunch and we’re really clicking and then we check out the area and get to this place on top of a hill and I totally don’t expect it but she k-closed me. Really sloppy kisser. She was getting spit all over the side of my mouth. Had to tell her to slow down and teach her how to kiss.
Turns out she was a virgin up until 3 months ago due to her religious beliefs but she finally said to hell with it and let her white ex-boyfriend pop her cherry.
So we walk around some more and get some coffee. Then we go to this random art gallery. After leaving it’s dark and she drags me into an alley and we start making out again. She starts rubbing my cock through my clothes and i’m feeling her pussy. I tell her that we should go to a love motel and she tells me that she never liked motels and thinks they’re dirty but she’ll go home with me. She calls her mom and makes up some BS about why she can’t come home tonight.
When we get to my place, we’re making out on the bed and I get her naked. She says this is as far as it’s going to go because she has a no sex rule on the first date. I keep pushing her and I ask her how about if we wait until midnight and that way it’s technically a new day and she agrees so I’m playing with her and it’s past 11 and I tell her we really don’t need to wait just a few more minutes. She agrees and I hit it. Super tight even though she had lost the v-card. She just couldn’t take it and I couldn’t even fully enjoy it because it was too damn tight.
Conclusion:
Korea is not an easy place to get laid for anyone, times that by 10 if you’re black. Although it doesn’t appear that I had many problems, I went on dozens of dates and got probably hundreds of numbers just to get the few K-girls I did. It’s definitely a numbers game there. If I had put in the same amount of effort in the US that I did in Korea, it would have probably resulted in at least 50 lays.
Aside from that, when I was able to land a date, I found that most K-chicks are childish, clingy, and have personalities that make watching paint dry sound like fun (literally, girls would often tell me their hobbies include sleeping). All of this is what led me to just give up on dating them my final year there and stick to p4p.