Sex is fun, there’s no doubt about it. But, of course, the same positions all the time will begin to feel routine.
If you are ready to break out of your rut, there’s a lot of fun to be had. And fun can mean whatever you want it to be, from acrobatic to just doing something that makes you feel silly. But manage your expectations. “Let’s just be clear with one thing first… Just because it’s fun, doesn’t mean it’s good,” says dating and sex expert Laurel House. Acrobatic, circus-style sex can be a lot of fun and enjoyable for both men and women, but that doesn’t mean that either you or she will get off. “That being said, just because you think it’s fun doesn’t mean that she does. And, conversely, what she finds fun might not be super exciting for you. She might think it’s really fun to be thrown around, or for you to stand up and hold her while doing her,” says House. But for you it feels more like a workout.
What we see in porn also looks like it can be a fun time, but remember all is not what appears on our DVD. “Sex that looks like what is in a porn can be really fun. But it might not be incredibly satisfying. It might look sexy, it might feel sexy, but it might not lead to an orgasm. And sometimes, although it isn’t physically that enjoyable, just the idea of it is enough to get you off,” says House.
And then there is sex in sexy places, and that’s fun too. “Sex on the balcony, sex in a pool, sex up against a window, sex on the beach, sex in the bathroom, sex at a party, sex where you really shouldn’t be having sex, sex in public… though they might not be physically satisfying, the idea of it might be enough to get you off. Or you might not get off, and neither will she, but it certainly was a lot of fun and made a memory!” says House.
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1. Bridge and Tunnel
Commuting has never been as fun as it is when reimagined here. To start, stand up, one behind the other. “The partner in front spreads their legs and bends over placing their hands on the floor. The other partner holds onto their hips and slides in from behind,” says Dr. Jess.
2. Against the Wall
Every hot movie has an against-the-wall scene, and for good reason. “This is a position my character, Ashley, in Submission has a lot of fun with. Being held up against a wall by your partner requires a lot of trust in him. It also offers the chance to be face to face, which is really intimate and hot,” says actress Ashlynn Yennie, star of Submission, a new series about BDSM on Showtime.
3. The Lover
With “The Lover,” the man sits at the end of the bed and the woman straddles him. Both of these allow deep penetration and extra skin-to-skin contact, says Nick Hawk, star of Showtime’s reality show Gigolos and author of Sexual Positions.
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4. Chicken Wing Doggy-Style
Doggy positions have endless fun possibilities and variations. While in doggy-style, reach down and scoop up her legs by holding her thighs. “Make sure your arm/hand is underneath her leg for support. For additional support, bring your leg up and plant on your foot (with the same leg of hers that you are holding) and rest her leg on top of your knee,” says Derrick Pierce, an award-nominated adult actor and director, boot camp instructor and personal trainer.
5. The Surfboard
This sex position was made popular by Beyoncé from a line in her hit single “Drunk in Love.” “This sex position requires a bathtub big enough to accommodate the size of both partners and can be enhanced by lighting a few candles and adding some champagne. It is important to only fill the bathtub up half way to avoid overflow when you both sit down. In this position, the male partner sits in the tub with his legs extended and gets to relax. The female partner sits on top of her partner and puts in the work. She can sit with her back facing him or face him positioned on her knees or with her feet flat in the tub. The water in the tub can wash away natural lubricant, but the feeling of the water between both bodies will feel amazing!” says sex expert Tyomi Morgan. By rocking back and forth, you will create waves like you’re riding a surfboard. Let the good times roll.
6. The Cowboy
The Cowboy is a modified doggy-style position where the woman lies flat on her stomach and pops her butt up in the air a little. “The man goes to his knees and clamps his thighs around the woman’s waist,” explains Nick Hawk.
7. Girl on Top
Who doesn’t love when a girl has the control and power? “It’s a nice change of pace when the guy can sit back and let his lady take the reins, so to speak. Plus, I think girls feel sexiest in this position,” says Yennie. If you are flexible and your partner is too, then you can do some crazy leg positions. “These create variations on the more traditional positions and are amazing for feeling new sensations. You can also hit spots she had no idea existed! I encourage everyone to play around with their flexibility… You might just surprise yourself and your partner,” says Yennie.
8. Hyper Connected Doggy-Style
“My favorite fun sex position is a spin on the from-behind setup,” says sexpert and founder of Sexpressed.com, Scott Brown. “It’s a variant of the doggy-style position we are all familiar with. The man stands on the floor at the edge of the bed, and the woman gets into typical doggy-style position on the bed. After the man has entered her he pulls the woman up towards him so that she is now kneeling at the edge of the bed, instead of being an all fours. He supports her with one hand wrapped around her torso (or if you’re really adventurous, her neck). This position is so great because it allows you to get that deep penetration so many love about doggy-style but you are more connected with your partner because her whole body is up against you. Added benefits are that you can pull her hair, see her face, and also whisper nasty things into her ear, all at the same time, since you have one free arm. It’s intense, intimate, and feels good!” says Brown.
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