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== Is Your Attitude Helping or Hurting Your Success ==
Is Your Attitude Helping or Hurting Your Success?
I’ve found myself talking often this past week about and how your is both completely under your control and the #1 predictor of your success. Because, as William James so eloquently stated, "The greatest discovery of any generation is that a human being can alter his life by altering his ." Since I have noticed a rash of negativity swirling around the universe this week and I wish to nip it in the bud as they say, I’m sharing some of my absolute most inspiring quotations on the power of attitude as my article this week. Pick your top few favorites that really resonate with who you are and use them as mantras this week. Post them around your office where you’ll see them often or take a minute to read them out loud in the morning and evening. Consistency with this will help you rewrite any negative attitudes you may be harboring and allow you to experience the levels of joy and success you want and deserve. Oh, and DON’T judge yourself around any of this. Focus on how you want to feel and how you want to experience the world moving forward no matter what you have felt or thought in the past,[http://www.manycanadagooseoutlet.ca Canada Goose]. Nothing matters in this moment other than your right to be happy and fulfilled.
This first one is THE quotation than began the in my life many, many moons ago that brought me to where I am today…
“The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. , to me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, than education, than money, than circumstances, than failure, than successes, than what other people think or say or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness or skill. It will make or break a company... a church... a home. The remarkable thing is we have a choice everyday regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. We cannot change our past... we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have,[http://www.canadagooseparka4u.com Canada Goose Parka Sale], and that is our attitude. I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% of how I react to it. And so it is with you,[http://www.canadagoosevest.ca Canada Goose Outlet]... we are in charge of our Attitudes.” Charles Swindoll
For the other free spirits out there, Carl Rogers says, "If we value independence, if we are disturbed by the growing conformity of knowledge, of values, of attitudes, which our present system induces, then we may wish to set up conditions of which make for uniqueness, for self-direction, and for self-initiated ."
Edwin Friedman adds that “The colossal misunderstanding of our time is the assumption that insight will work with people who are unmotivated to change. Communication does not depend on syntax, or eloquence, or rhetoric, or articulation but on the emotional context in which the message is being heard. People can only hear you when they are moving toward you, and they are not likely to when your words are pursuing them. Even the choicest words lose their power when they are used to overpower. Attitudes are the real figures of speech."
As someone who is well known and honored for having created so much lasting in this world, Frank Lloyd Wright knows that “The thing always happens that you really believe in; and the belief in a thing makes it happen."
Henry David Thoreau beautifully phrased the same sentiment when he said, "Thought is the sculptor who can create the person you want to be."
And, to put it even more literally and practically, "I am no longer cursed by poverty because I took possession of my own mind, and that mind has yielded me every material thing I want, and much more than I need. But this power of mind is a universal one, available to the humblest person as it is to the greatest." (Andrew Carnegie)
So, "If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself, but to your estimate of it; and this you have the power to revoke at any moment." (Marcus Aurelius)
And "The greatest part of our depends on our dispositions, not our circumstances." (Martha Washington)
Because, " is not the absence of war; it is a virtue; a state of mind; a disposition for benevolence; confidence; and justice." (Spinoza)
Even after being exposed to the darkest side of humanity, Victor Frankl still believed "Everything can be taken from a man but ... the last of the human freedoms - to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one's own way."
The key message in all of this is that “You must be the change you wish to see in the world.” (Gandhi)
Never ever, ever forget that “You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.” (Buddha)
I hope these quotes have inspired you as much as they continue to inspire me. I’ll end this list with what I believe to be the most powerful saying I ever heard. You may even be familiar with it as it is often quoted. These words touched me so deeply that they actually inspired me to have the courage to start my business and they underlie everything I do in my business even today. They are…
“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world,[http://www.canadagoosejacket2u.com Canada Goose Jackets]. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.” (Marianne Williamson)
If you didn’t see your favorite inspiring quote here, please share it with me. I’ll compile a list and share all the gems with this community.
As always, have fun with this!
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== Are You Holding Grudges or Are They Holding You ==
Are You Holding Grudges or Are They Holding You?
Holding grudges is a heavy burden to bear. If you’re holding them, are you aware of what this is really doing to you?
It’s probably correct to say that most of us have held one or more grudges at some point in life. Some are about significant events and some are petty. Sometimes we’re able to let grudges go either within a reasonable amount of time or eventually. Sometimes we hold onto grudges for a very, very long time. When this happens, resentment we carry can or does turn into bitterness.
Ernest Holmes wrote that the mouth speaks from the heart, and therefore it’s impossible for us to conceal who we are… rather than as we wish to appear to be; and that “…the mirror of life cannot help reflecting back to us that which we really are.” You can easily add: life reflects back what we really believe; and, we behave based on what we believe. Imagine what it means -wise if we hold resentment or bitterness in the heart, especially if we believe they belong and should stay there.
It’s been rightly said that forgiveness is not about – is never about – saying what someone did is okay, but is instead a way for you to put the heavy burden of resentment down. This is so that you can enjoy life, including the abundance you already have in every area of your life, which then invites more in. This makes sense to do when you think about how responds to and matches your energy vibration in every moment. Your emotions tell you what you’re attracting.
Something to keep in mind: if the person, or we, had had the consciousness to do better at any given time, he/she/we would have. This fact applies to all of us, and it’s something we meet in every moment,[http://www.canadagoosevest.ca Canada Goose Parka]. We all have the opportunity to raise our consciousness even one degree, to make better choices than ones we might make strictly from an ego perspective. This is not always as easy as we’d like, but it is doable.
Let’s look at what happens to us when we hold grudges against others, and even against ourselves.
*We keep “records,” our own mental list of every “wrong” we experienced or perceived that we experienced (or did). We not only visit these records repeatedly, but will include one or more past entries in the present, when triggered into frustration, anger, or fear. We do this either with a person we hold a grudge against (including us) or we tell others. We don’t do this as part of a process to heal ourselves, but to drive the nail or spike of our own perspective in deeper. If we talk about these things from a commitment to release them and free ourselves once and for all, that’s altogether different, and encouraged.
*In our retelling of these wrongs to whomever, we paint ourselves as in the right and the other(s) in the wrong. Any wrongdoing or inappropriateness of ours is usually left out of the story. If bitterness is in our heart, we act from a victim or martyr-like mindset, which means the majority of our conversations become ones of complaining and seldom ones of healing or about learned , or what we intend to create or contribute in a productive way going forward.
*We think of life as a serious business. We place “serious” emphasis on all that we perceive as needing to be done, including busywork. If anyone doesn’t share the same serious , if they dare to be lighter-hearted or even to have fun or be calmer than we feel, we get angry.
*If anyone we hold a grudge against has good fortune, our resentment is amplified at them… maybe even at Source.
*While others enjoy life and serenity and in greater measure than we do, we sit outside of these experiences, stewing or wallowing in resentment.
We feel we have every right to our grudges and to hold onto them; but who pays the greater price for holding onto them? We do – because our perspective cannot help but warp under so much tension and strain. Ernest Holmes wrote: “Man’s experience is the logical outcome of his inner vision; his horizon is limited to the confines of his own consciousness. Wherever this consciousness lacks a true perspective, its outward expression will lack proper harmony.” Stuff happens; but an affected perspective will take nearly everything personally or as a personal attack.
You cannot control what another individual does or thinks, but you can control how you choose to respond or behave. And,[http://www.canadagoosejacket2u.com Canada Goose Jacket], yes, even how you think about what others do. When we hold a grudge—large or petty, we restrict any expansion of perspective. This restricts what we can learn and how we can grow spiritually, mentally, and emotionally. We may complain that nothing and no one ever changes, while we stay exactly the same or worsen. We never punish others with our grudges, our resentments, and our resistance to a more reasoned perspective as much as we punish ourselves.
Effects of grudge-holding show up in our bodies, our behaviors, our finances, our relationships. This can cause us to be on alert for slights of any kind, as though everyone – and even Source – is against us. We may be too upset or distressed (or habituated) to even contemplate how we affect , what kinds of “instructions” we send to it. We become a house divided against its Self, and hold others or Source responsible.
Our grudges cause us to focus on fragments instead of the whole, to be fragmented ourselves,[http://www.canadagooseparka4u.com Canada Goose Parka Sale], instead of whole. We seek, even crave, wholeness. But grudge-holding keeps us from seeing that wholeness comes from and can only come from within.
How can you release a grudge? First, you have to sincerely desire to do this for Your Own Sake! You don’t ever have to like or approve or okay what happened, but you can choose to stop letting your grudges consume you and your life. You can choose to say: It happened. It’s over. I’m going to trust there was a reason,[http://www.manycanadagooseoutlet.ca Canada Goose Outlet], even if just to show me how not to be, or was an opportunity to raise my conscious awareness. My focus now is on how to feel, act, and be better and better. My choice is to now focus on the present, which is creating my future, as well, right now.
You can know that the more you put this into practice, the easier it is for you to enter a state of appreciation – for yourself, your life, and the Source of All That Is. You can free yourself from the bitter bile of resentment and its repetitive negative influences on you and your life. You can apply this to old grudges and potential new ones. You can watch how this shifts Law of Attraction to work in ways that fill you with joy and enjoyment… and allow you to more easily connect with the true blessings in your life, and inspire you to be a blessing in the lives of others.
Practice makes progress.
? Joyce Shafer
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== To Be List ==
To Be List
I’m sure, you like me have in your daily life management planner a to-do list. Do you not?
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Whether it is to be more philanthropic. Patient. Knowledgeable in a certain area. Gain mastery of your thoughts. Friendly. Humorous. Attractive. Resourceful. Loving.
It doesn’t matter what is on the list. It is more important that you have a list. Then, after you have the list to ask your self the all powerful question of what is important to you about ___________ on the list?
For example, what is important to you about being resourceful?
Here is the process I go through when creating my to-be list:
What is important to me about being resourceful?
I feel I will be able to handle more unexpected occurrences with grace.
What is important to me about being able to handle more unexpected occurrences with grace?
I feel more in charge. More capable and in control. I will be able to share with others how to do the same.
What is important to me about feeling more in charge, capable and in control? What is important to me about being able to share this with others?
Well, as a child my parents got divorced when I was 12 and there was nothing I could do about it. It was the beginning of unexpected occurrences. So, as an adult I would feel more at and connected with my source of strength if I knew that I could draw upon that source to solve any challenges that arise,[http://www.canadagooseparka4u.com Canada Goose Parka Sale]. As a little girl in Miss Gittleman fourth grade class at the end of the school year she gave me the teacher editions of the Little Red Book, Little Green Book and Little Yellow Book. She encouraged me to teach my friends over summer break. Miss Gittleman said that she saw in me a natural desire and inclination toward teaching and sharing with others. That one act has confirmed my thirst for knowledge and desire to share what I learn with others. By the way,[http://www.manycanadagooseoutlet.ca Canada Goose Outlet], I did teach on our front step every day during the summer.
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== Old fish exposed to take the lead in the expulsion of the Hu ==
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FRANCISCO, Feb. 2, according to Yahoo! Sports reported that the chairman of the players' union to take the lead in the expulsion of the executive director Billy - Hunter Hunt has been indefinitely outgoing -
take the lead in the expulsion of Hunter
According to sources, the local time Friday morning, Fisher, in order to safeguard the interests of the players, to take the lead in the expulsion of Hunter, and decided to inform the Hunt. Of course, the players' union to make this decision, but also through a rigorous internal review, and is applying for the FBI to investigate. At the same time, the players' union legal adviser Ron - Clay Pune will succeed Hunt, interim executive director of the players union.
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Hunt a lot of things are much players accused of the Review Committee, including family and friends he hired seriously infringe on the interests of the union. Although there is no conclusive evidence that these illegal use of union financial funding,[http://www.canadagoosevest.ca Canada Goose Outlet], but the previous report of a survey, it has been revealed Hunter a number of acts of non-compliance, and cited a number of conflicts of interest. The report also shows, Hunter worked as a trade union directors did not agree after the players voted.
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in local time on Friday, in a statement issued to the Union all the players in the Fisher said: "Unfortunately, the players union's management seems to have forgotten that the only task of the players union, and that is maximize the benefits for their members. This is in about a year ago, I called for trade union reasons of internal review results confirm this unfortunate fact, we now players must move forward,[http://www.canadagoosejacket2u.com Canada Goose]. "
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Fisher will lead a new interim Executive Committee and Advisory Committee, and will be in the All-Star Game during the organization consultation reorganization players union related matters. "Immediate change is necessary, I will be with the members of the Committee,[http://www.canadagoosejacket2u.com Canada Goose], is committed to overcome all kinds of difficulties that may arise in the future." Fisher said in a statement, "Please rest assured, our goal has always been to the best interests of the players, we will have a tougher stance than ever before. "
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player the unions full name of the American Basketball Players Association, founded in 1954 by former team star players - Bob Cousy. The coalition medical insurance, pension insurance, do not even have the protection of the minimum salary, and the player's average annual wage is only $ 8,000. 10 years after the founding of the players union, players 'salaries gradually increase the threat to players until 1964, under the pressure out of the 1964 All-Star Game, NBA () official admitted that the status of the players' union.
the current Chairman of the players union is Fisher, successive chairmen were Cousy - Tom Heinsohn, Oscar - Robertson, Paul - Silas - Bob Lanier, Junior - Cloth Richman, Alex - British Glish, Buck Williams, Patrick - Patrick Ewing, Michael - - Corey, Antonio - Davis. Fisher took office on November 19, 2006, and worked so far.
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