So, you finally met a man you can’t get off your mind, and you want to keep him interested. Unfortunately, not all of us are endowed with a Nyle DiMarco bod; so seducing him will take more effort than just flashing a six-pack. The good news is you don’t have to be in top physique to catch his eye. Your solution is actually right in your closet (or wallet). You can use trendy or gay menswear to your advantage for an irresistible look that will charm his pants off. Here are a few styling tips from the stylists at Differio on how to attract men – without getting naked.
1. It’s all about your curves.
Sometimes, getting a man’s attention is as simple as flaunting what your mama gave you by highlighting your curves. What better way to show off your gluteus maximus next time you’re at the gym than in body-hugging compression pants? This is an instant muscle definer that’ll prove you’ve been beasting on leg day. For those that aren’t gym buffs, the right fitted jeans can also work wonders. Opt for skinny jeans for men designed with contrasted stitching along the crotch area, like stitched Pascucci Jeans. This is a subtle way to remind him there’s a lot more man under those jeans.
2. Wear a little red.
You can actually make yourself statistically better looking by wearing something red. This is probably the easiest style advice on how to attract men because it doesn’t take much effort to throw on red designer jackets for men. We often associate the color red with power, prestige, and even porn.
There’s something sexually charged about this color, which makes sense why X-rated stores are located in what known as the red light district. If you’re still a skeptic that color psychology alone will make him want to rip your shirt off, it doesn’t hurt to wear something that will at least make you stand out.
3. What’s his fantasy?
We’re not encouraging mind games, but tapping into his sex fantasy or hidden fetish is an easy way to get under his skin. You can flirt with his sex drive by wearing stylish menswear that reveals different parts of your body. Sleeveless shirts are perfect for testing if he gets off on armpit odor or toned biceps. If you peg him as more of an underwear or ass guy, a split hem shirt will show off your skivvies while still leaving enough to the imagination. If you caught him staring at your feet (and not because you’re wearing really cool shoes), he may have a foot fetish. Try bright or metallic sneakers to draw attention and keep the fixation going. This also gives you another excuse to splurge on mens designer shoes, just saying.
4. Being handsome is skin deep.
We often take for granted how much skin plays a part in the laws of attraction. One of the most common traits men find universally attractive is clear skin. Try seducing him by putting more effort into your everyday mens skincare and grooming routine. Make your skin irresistible to the touch with a hair minimizing after shave that’ll hydrate while calming rough stubble. If you’re looking for an all-over glow, venture into the holy grail of sunless tanners with Jet Set Sun Spray Tan for a post-vacation radiance that can also enhance muscle definition. At the end of the day, turning a guy on is as easy as making skin-to- skin contact because we’re only human.
5. Shower, rinse, repeat.
Before scoring your dream guy, always keep your hygiene in check. Let’s be honest, nothing will scare him away faster than B.O. Bored of ordinary cologne? If you really want to know how to attract men with smell, try pheromone cologne that’ll enhance attraction with an enticing combination of essential oils and pheromones. If all else fails, you can always call on your friends: Jack, Jose, and Morgan. Cheers.