1. SHOW YOUR APPRECIATION: For some reason, guys just don’t show when they appreciate something unless it’s something super profound. But I know you appreciate it when your girl makes dinner, cleans your place, and buys tickets to your favorite concert. All you have to do is show her that you appreciate it. Something as simple as giving her a passionate kiss followed by a, “Thank you. I really appreciate this,” is all it takes.
2. DON’T BE JEALOUS: I guess I should say not to show her that you’re jealous. Everyone gets jealous at times, but if you are getting overly jealous, she’s going to be unhappy and think you don’t trust her. Keep it on the down low.
3. BE ATTENTIVE: I know you’ve heard this a hundred times before—even by her during a fight before—but it’s really so important in your quest to make her happy and be a better boyfriend. Girls process information by talking and venting. You are there to support her and all she asks is that you actually listen. Don’t just sit there nodding your head.
4. LET HER HAVE GIRL TIME: This means two things. First, let her have time to do her hair, put a face mask on, and do her nails without you bothering her. She needs this. Secondly, give her time to go out with her girlfriends. If you get mad every time she goes out with her friends she’s going to be unhappy and resent you for it. She needs girl time just like you need guy time.
5. SURPRISE HER: Pick her up and make her get in the car without telling her where you’re going. Or plan a surprise trip. Bring her flowers home for no reason at all. Little surprises like this make her heart flourish.
6. DO THINGS ONLY HER LIKES TO DO: Relationships require sacrifice sometimes. You both may not always want to do the same things. However, if she can sit through a couple of hours of your yelling at the TV during a sports game, you can spend an hour watching Jenifas dairies with her.
7. BEFRIEND HER FRIENDS: Even if you’re not their biggest fans, being friends with her friends shows her you want to be a bigger part of her life. She’ll be ecstatic that you’re willing to go hang with her and the girls from time to time.
8. ALWAYS AIM TO PLEASE HER: Those that say sex isn’t important in a relationship are kidding themselves. The truth is girls have a harder time fulfilling their needs in the bedroom and a little more effort from you does great things for your relationship.
9. EXPRESS YOUR FEELINGS TO HER: Yeah, yeah, I know. This one is going to be a little harder, but it’s actually a huge way you to be a better boyfriend. Girls are great at communicating with emotions, and guys, well, not so much.
Try to tell her how you feel about things so she gets to know you better, and she’ll feel extra special that you opened up to her. Even start by explaining your feelings for her. It’ll get easier with time, I promise.
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