Last updated June 28, 2015. This list has also been made available in Tumblr reblog format thanks to subtlecluster, which has 10,000+ notes - thanks everyone!
The following are link and book recommendations, all evaluated by mods Marilyn and Avey, as helpful resources that relate to genderqueer and non-binary concepts and identities. If there is a resource you would like to suggest, please use the GQID submit form.
Links:
–General Websites and Tumblrs—
a-gender, all-none-or-inbetween, androgyneity, Crossdreamers (Main Site),Crossdreamers (Tumblr), crushingthebinary, dmabresources, Freedom Centre: FC Yeah!, Fuck Yeah Genderless, Fuck Yeah Transitioning GQs,Gendered Intelligence, Genderfork (Main Site), Genderforkr (Tumblr), Gender is a Spectrum, GenderPanic, The Genderqueer Activist , GenderQueer Confessions, Genderpedia, Gender Truth, Genderqueer in the UK,Genderqueer Plus, Genderqueer Positivity, Genderqueer Pride, Gender Queeries, GenderQueer Problems, GenderQueer Revolution (Archived),Gender Sphere, Gender Splendour, Genderqueer Survival Guide Project,Género Queer y No-binario (Spanish), Heartland Trans* Wellness Group,howtogenderfluid, KNOW Homo, Life Outside the Binary, LGBTQ Asks,littlenonbinarythings, thenonbinary, Nonbinary, Nonbinary.org, Non-Binary History Project, nonbinarynerd, Non-Op: Another Option (Main Site, Archived), Non-Op (Tumblr), Nonbinary Resource, Nonbinary Sex, Nonbinary Support, The Non-Binary Safe Space, nonbinarytransgermany (German),Performing While Trans, pipisafoat: FAQ on Genderqueers, Practical Androgyny (Main Site), Practical Androgyny (Tumblr), Queer Lexikon(German), T.R.A.N.S., Transcending Anatomy, trans-positivity, Trans Youth Equality Foundation, We Happy Trans, whatdoesenbymean, World Professional Association for Transgender Health, YGender
—Intersections of Identity—
Autistic and Non-Binary, Chubby Tubby Trans, Fat Genderqueers!, Fuck Yeah Queer Latin@s, Genderfucked Brown Kids, Genderqueer & Non-Binary People of Color Unite!, latinxnonbinary, Lovely Non-Binary People of Colour,Nonbinary Autistics!, Queerability
—Specific Identities—
Androgyne Online, Androgyny Rarely Asked Questions, Bigender, Bi-Gender the Bisexual Partner, Confessions of a Genderfluid, demigenderpalace,demigenders, Diary of a Gender Fluid, The Feminine Neutrois, GirlFags(Archived), Hell Yeah Agender!, Neutrois.com, Neutrois Nonsense (Main Site), Neutrois Nonsense (Tumblr), queerfemmes, We Are Genderfluid!
—Survival—
Hotlines and Support Centers
Trans Lifeline: “Trans Lifeline is a non-profit dedicated to the well being of transgender people. We run a hotline staffed by transgender people for transgender people. Trans Lifeline volunteers are ready to respond to whatever support needs members of our community might have.“ US: (877) 565-8860 and Canada: (877) 330-6366
The Trevor Project: “The leading national organization providing crisis intervention and suicide prevention services” to LGBT youth: 866-4-U-TREVOR (866-488-7386) Also available for matters of less pressing urgency, they have a support center for trans* and gender identity questions.
See Genderqueer Pride: Need Help? for a list of hotlines and websites for support across LGBTQ identities and specific needs and IMAlive for general online chat crisis support.
Survival Resources
Refuge Restrooms, Transgender Housing Network, Trans* Resource, Trans Student Equality Resources, The Transgender Teen’s Survival Guide
—Fashion, Clothing, and Transitional Gear—
Click here for GQID’s Breast Forms, Gaffs, Binders, Packers, and Fashion Masterpost with links to shops and websites!
Androgynous Fashion Design, andropeople, Andro Wear, Fuck Yeah Androgyny!, fyeahtransfashion, GC2b Transitional Apparel, Genderfluid Fashion, Genderqueer, Just Exquisite, idfashiongender, The Queercuts of Our Lives, Queering Style, Qwear, Smashing the Binary, transmakeup,tuckingandotherskills, The Tumblr Transgender Clothing Exchange, The Transgender Friendly Clothing Swap
—Pronouns and Titles—
The Art of Transliness: Gender Neutral Relational Terms, Gender Neutral Pronoun Blog, Gender Queeries: Gender Neutral/Queer Titles, Genderqueer in the UK: Misc, or Mx: A Gender-neutral Title, MIT’s Ally Toolkit: Gender Neutral Pronoun Usage, names-and-pronouns, Nonbinary Resource: Multilingual Pronouns List, Pronoun Dressing Room, The Pronoun Place,The Queer Dictionary, Warren Wilson: Using Gender-Neutral Language in Academic Writing
—Education—
Applying to College as a Non Binary Trans Person, Gender Diversity Project,Gender Spectrum: Resources, Queer Teaching Tips, Safe Schools Coalition,TRANScending Identities: A Bibliography of Resources on Transgender and Intersex Topics, Trans What?: A Guide Towards Allyship
—Art and Writing—
The Gender Book, Genderqueer Poetry, Trans*toons, Non-binary Artists,nonbinaryheadcanons, Pride Flags for Us
—Fun, Videos, Podcasts, & Performance—
Agender Earthworm, Facts About Queers (Humor), Fuck Yeah Non-Binary Seahorse, Gender of the Day, Gender of the Night, Genderqueer Chat,Gendercast: Our Transmasculine Genderqueery, Gender Queeries, Yay genderform! (a comprehensive and fun-to-play-with list of gender, sex, orientation, and more identities), Midwest Genderqueer, regender: A Different Kind of Translator
—Social Media and Forums—
Click here for a list of social media with options apart from male and female
Forums and Groups
AVEN: Gender Discussion, GenderQueer Atheists Group on Facebook,Last.fm: Genderqueers Group, Laura’s Playground, Scarleteen: Gender Issues, Steam Community: Genderqueer, Susan’s Place, #transchat,TransYada, TQ Nation, T-Vox
Subreddits
r/agender, r/askgsm, r/ainbow, r/androgyny, r/askGSM, r/asktransgender,r/crossdressing, r/DualGender, r/genderfluid, r/genderqueer, r/nonbinaryuk,r/lgbt, r/transgender, r/TransHealth, r/transpositive, r/TransSupport,r/TransSpace
Livejournal Communities
Androgynes, Bigender, Birls, gender_fluid, Genderqueer, Girlfags and Guydykes, non_binary, Transgender
deviantART Groups
#boob-B-gone, #GenderqueerClub, #Gender-identity, #GBSTA, #LGBTQ,#transDeviants
Articles: Click here for a list
Organizations and Events: Click here for a list
Sex Ed: Click here for a list
Books:
Note: Use Worldcat.org, the world’s largest global library catalog, to see if the book you’re seeking is available at a library near you or click the links below to be directed to an Amazon purchase link (when available).
decolonizing trans/gender 101 - b. binaohan
The Gender Book - Mel Reiff Hill and Jay Mays (free/pay what you can eBook)
The Genderific Coloring Book - Sophie Labelle
Gender Now Coloring Book - Maya Christina Gonzales
Gender Outlaw: On Men, Women and the Rest of Us - Kate Bornstein
Gender Outlaws: The Next Generation - Kate Bornstein
Hello, Cruel World: 101 Alternatives to Suicide for Teens, Freaks, and Other Outlaws - Kate Bornstein
My New Gender Workbook: A Step-by-Step Guide to Achieving World Peace Through Gender Anarchy and Sex Positivity - Kate Bornstein
Books and essays by Ivan Coyote
Grrl Alex: A Personal Journey to a Transgender Identity - Alex Drummond
GenderQueer: Voices From Beyond the Sexual Binary - Joan Nestle, Riki Wilchins, Clare Howell
Nobody Passes: Rejecting the Rules of Gender and Conformity - Mattilda Bernstein Sycamore
PoMoSexuals: Challenging Assumptions About Gender and Sexuality - Carol Queen and Lawrence Schimel
Queer Theory, Gender Theory - Riki Anne Wilchins
Read My Lips: Sexual Subversion and the End of Gender - Riki Anne Wilchins
Trans Bodies, Trans Selves - Laura Erickson-Schroth
whatever.odt - JD O’Meara (free eBook)
Feeling Wrong in Your Own Body: Understanding What It Means to Be Transgender - Jamie A. Seba
That’s Revolting!: Queer Strategies for Resisting Assimilation - Mattilda Bernstein Sycamore
Transgender Voices: Beyond Women and Men - Lori B. Girshick and Jamison Green
Transition and Beyond: Observations on Gender Identity - Reid Vanderburgh
Book lists compiled by others:
17 Pathbreaking Non-Binary and Gender Fluid Novels
Bibliography of Books Concerning Androgynes and Androgyny
Booklist for Trans Youth on Goodreads
Genderqueer Chicago on Goodreads
Hey everyone - This list has been freshly cleared of broken links, updated with new links and books, and reorganized thanks to new admin Avey’s hard work helping me sort this out! Please let us know links and books we should add. We are particularly interested in having more resources listed in languages besides English.
~Marilyn