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About the Author

About the Author

This article is written by Royane Real who is the author of several self help books, including “How You Can Have All the Friends You Want – Your Complete Guide to Finding Friends, Making Friends, and Keeping Friends”If you want more ideas on how you can improve your social life and make more friends, download it today at http://www.royanereal.com

This article is written by Royane Real who is the author of several self help books, including “How You Can Have All the Friends You Want – Your Complete Guide to Finding Friends, Making Friends, and Keeping Friends”If you want more ideas on how you can improve your social life and make more friends, download it today at http://www.royanereal.com

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== Advertising and Promoting Using Articles ==

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A very efficient method to advertise your professional services, the products you are selling or simply to show how educated you are in a particular niche is by using the highly beneficial method of article marketing.

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These articles that enclose at the end a short presentation of you or your business can be about various solution to actual problems, about everyday life or any other topic that will interest and inform a reader about the subject. There are many sites to which you can submit these articles to, or if you have a database of your customers’ emails, just drop them an email containing the article and a link to your personal site or professional site. Over time, it is hoped that your article will be syndicated on websites throughout the internet.

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The articles can generally be copied from one article submission site to the other as long as the content belongs to you and you are not stealing someone else’s work. There is a huge demand for content on the internet, its what keeps the search engines hungry, and with so many website owners and ezine publishers regularly looking for fresh content, chances are that your article will not only be used on article directories but also on several other sites.

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The more interesting and informative an article is, the more people will read and remember it. Even if you don’t have experience with writing, there are some benefits that may persuade you to give it a try:

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- It may improve the way you convey your thoughts on a subject.- It will bring your website visibility.- If it’s written well it will may help someone.- You can prove your knowledge in your professional areas.

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Publishing articles means they have to contain mostly useful information and just a little bit of advertising. If they don’t follow this rule, you might end up with an un-publishable article. The promotion area of the article is usually meant for the end of that article, known as the resource box. As an article directory owner myself, I know that there are many authors who insist on placing links to their website throughout the article, but I would suggest that having an informative article with the links to futher information in the resource box is a much clearer and better structured approach.

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Articles are meant to inform the reader of a particular subject, and not merely persuade the reader to visit your site with every paragraph written. In fact, should you have a good enough article, the reader will more than likely choose to visit the site in your resource box in any case. I recently received an article that contained 11 links in a 2-word article! This DID NOT include the resource box where a further 4 links were provided. Needless to say the article was rejected, so make sure your articles are interesting and informative with promotion left to the appropriate section.

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There are other things you could do with articles if you are willing to spend some money. There are different publicity sites, ranked high in search engines that for a fee will publish your article on their site for a limited period of time. The fee is not high usually, but can provide publicity should you choose this route. But if this choice is the one that appeals to you the most, you must make sure the article is really good, so good that it can compete with all the other articles on that site. The user can see them all at the same time and you must think of ways to make him choose to read yours,[http://monclerdaunenjackeoutlet.eu moncler daunenjacke outlet- Jacken Outlet Online Günstig]. If you have tried and you are not confident you can do it on your own, you can always hire a professional.

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== Being with Women and Dating ==

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Any dating teacher who comes at the approach to women of being lucky, I would question what they are doing and teaching.

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There really is a lot of bad advice out there and I just have to say it.  Some of the advice out there will actually make things worse, damage your psyche, repel women even more and get you further away from success with women.

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Mainstream advice (including mens magazines) is pretty far off too.  Take her on an expensive dinner date and maybe youll get lucky at the end of it.

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All of it is so antiquated.  Women dont want massive levels of pressure and social expectation forced upon them.  When you go on a date and pay for her time with money or gifts, they feel like they owe you something.

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Thats most likely not going to get you anywhere.  Its a waste of time and money if shes not interested in you.

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The mens magazines are notorious for setting men up for failure,[http://mulberrytaskeroutletdk.eu mulberry bayswater].

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Not only are they leaders of sexploiting women as a behavioral conditioning stimulus for men to habitually fear, but they give men terrible advice.

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Things like, do this and you might get lucky with her.  Wed lose one testicle just to have a date with her, etc.

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And the men take whats in front of them as truth especially when the women with these same attributes behave this way; it only further reinforces her as the prize.

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You take this relational approach of being the response to a womans (body or sexuality) and you will consistently fail.

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Its not in the pick-up lines; those only exacerbate the problem and make it even clearer to her because women already know where youre coming from.

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From your relational approach they can tell if theyre interested, maybe interested or definitely not interested.  In the maybe interested, they just want to find out more if you can hold your own against her power.

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Its a relational power game upfront with dating.  If youre a mainstream guy, youve been conditioned to fail with women whether you know it or not.

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If the pussy is on a pedestal and youre the response, your body language will be broadcasting all the wrong things.  Thats why its so difficult.

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Any putting the woman as the prize to be caught is ineffective.

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Its unnatural.  Why?  Because the way of attraction is that the woman is the response to the stimulus of man.

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She cant feel natural attraction or physiological response if hes doing the backwards thing society tells him to do.

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She cant trust him or open up to him if she knows hes too eager to get some of her as the prize.  Theres no value in it for her unless shes really horny and desperate at the time.

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Who has the relational authority and power when its the man who could get lucky?

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The woman does.  And thats whats wrong.  It doesnt work that way.

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Oh sure, if she wants to use him for more meals or to lock him in for a long-term relationship for his social and personal attributes, the guy could be luckybut she still owns him.

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So anything that says do this to get lucky with women is just coming from the behavioral reality of women being the prize and youre just like another hot dog trying to get some.

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The answer is in relational dynamics.  Re-condition yourself (not from inner game because its not enough) to never give your power away and put sexy women in the proper relational dynamic.

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You have to be the stimulus so they can physiologically trust you in order for them to open up.  This is near impossible for most men and its getting worse.

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The way of the natural and those few which are above the game is a different relational reality completely.  Its one where there isnt any luck, rather predictable and consistent results.

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Sure there will be variables on the levels of response but there is no fear, no drama, no luck.

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If you believe like most men that youd be lucky just to get in bed with a woman and you actually care about this area of your life, seriously seek the answers.  You will find a lot in my resources that will get you on the right track.

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Its not enough that you re-affirm to yourself that Im the prize because thats not got enough leverage up against the exploited beauty of these women to make a real change for you.

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Re-affirming or believing that you deserve beautiful women in most cases isnt enough because of your emotional attribution and behavior conditioning which habitually says you dont deserve them.

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My success with women is consistent and even predictable.

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Learn the way.  Luck is for the ignorant.  Power, attraction and sex is for the cognizant men who are applying relational dynamics.

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== Are you Happy- ==

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There are many things in this world that makes someone feel happy. For some it is material, others it is spiritual and for some a personal feat. The definition of being happy is different for every individual and this all depends on what that person values in life. Here are a few things that anyone can be happy about;

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In some societies, having a family is enough to be happy. By having parents as role models who continue to care about the children even if these kids are all grown-up and siblings who support one another through thick and thin. These are just some of the things that orphans or people who come from broken families wish were available and some individuals who do have take for granted.

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There is a saying that goes no man is an island. Having friends during both good times and bad is something important. If these people donít give comfort and advice when things donít turn out right, then these individuals donít deserve to be called such and one should just look for people who do.

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The love that family or friends can give to some is not enough. A person needs something more special than that which is why one gets into a relationship. By doing an activity that both like to do and finding a connection there is a good chance that this person could be the one that the individual would like to spend the rest of eternity with.

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Doing something one enjoys and loves is another. Any person who stays a year or more in any job continues to do so not just because of the money but because that person is having fun. It is hard to do anything if one does not have the heart or passion for it. Should that person come to that point, then perhaps a change in career is needed.

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It is better to give than to receive and if that person has a lot of love to give, then one can share it by joining a volunteer group that helps people. There are many places that an individual can join such as the nursing home, hospitals, non-government and non-profit organizations.

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Stress leads to a lot of health related sicknesses and at times death. One must accept that there are many things in this world that are uncontrollable and worrying about it doesnít help. By being aware of this and focusing only on what the person can do, it will help the person concentrate on the things that are important.

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Studies have shown that engaging in any form of exercise increases the amount of endorphins produced by the brain and thus makes the person feel happy. Being healthy and in good physical condition is something a person can show off and be proud.

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There are things that may upset a person. By completely ignoring it or not paying that much attention to it will help in preventing that individualís day to be ruined,[http://billigmonclerjakke.eu Moncler Jakker Danmark].

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Everyone has strengths and weaknesses. By using more of the talents and gifts that a person has instead of wishing for things that arenít present, it will make the person feel happy and not envious of other people.

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Man evolves in the surroundings. By learning from mistakes and experiences, people improve. By remembering the times in oneís life where the individual has touched the lives of others, a person has brought happiness from the one who gave it to the one who received it.

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Being happy or how to be happy is not something that anyone can tell a person. It doesnít end by getting that dream job or getting married. It is a continuous process that the individual must pursue everyday. Praying can help a person seek happiness by asking for guidance from above.

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Everyone has a happy place. Be it a special event in ones life, watching the sunset or just being in solitude.

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Showing love and happiness doesnít only have to happen during Christmas. It can be done everyday like giving a compliment to someone who has done a good job and encouraging the person to do more can really go a long way. It has an effect on people which brightens the day and will also let one share it with another.

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== 8 Steps to a Smooth Divorce ==

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1. Become educated on all aspects of Divorce. Reading the various websites available on divorce is an excellent start.  Read every document available.  Complicated subjects always deserve a second reading.  Then, read your State Statutes on divorce.  You will find they are written in almost-plain English and are understandable to the average person.  State Statutes can be found by entering your state and the word statutes in most search engines.  Look for anything that sounds like “marriage” or “domestic relations.”2. Buy books on Divorce.  Generic divorce books are a good start and will give you a good overview.  But they will not completely do the job.  Every state has different laws and requirements for divorce.  So you need to look for a divorce book that specializes on your state divorce laws.  Check local bookstores or online bookstores.  But be aware: laws change and books become quickly outdated.  That will not present a problem as long as you use the book for general education.3. Take the “high road” during your divorce.  Behave perfectly, beginning now.  Cooperate with your spouse on arrangements for children.  Do not waste, destroy, or hide assets.  Take on the appearance of a “saint.”  You will be happier, more relaxed, and less destructive to your family and assets.  Most important of all, the spouse that takes the “high road” always does better in a divorce trial.  Judges like to see you take the “high road.”4. Use your newly gained knowledge and plan two possible outcomes: your best possible outcome and your worst possible outcome.  Be realistic and put it in writing.5. Use your knowledge of your spouse.  Try to imagine what is going through your spouses mind.  Make an educated guess and write down what sort of outcomes your spouse might pick.  Come up with a best and worst outcome that you imagine your spouse would come up with.6. With four possible outcomes on paper, you now have an overview of the battlefield.  Using that information, see if you can work out a combination of give and take that approximates “best” outcomes for both spouses.  It doesn’t need to be perfect but you should try your best.  When done, you have a powerful plan that will help you in negotiations.7. Be involved in your divorce.  Actively negotiate with a goal of peaceful settlement,[http://mulberrytaskeroutletdk.eu mulberry tasker outlet].  Don’t use destructive techniques.  They only look bad for you at trial time.  And never be afraid to ask your attorney questions.  This is your divorce and you have to live with the result.  The well-informed person will always come out ahead.8.  Last, become an expert on every word printed on legal papers and pleadings.  Ask your attorney, look up definitions in books, or ask other experienced people.  Don’t assume anything.  This is your life – not your attorney’s life.  Treat this situation like it is the most important event of your life.  Again, the well-informed person will always come out ahead.

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== A Home Improvement Project ==

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Learn the different things you can do to your home which add value. Forget about adding a pool, it won’t hold the investment you have to spend to have one installed. The best laces to look are your bathroom and kitchen, after to upgrade those rooms next would be the bedrooms. Like adding another one or two depending the demand in your area? You can find this out by asking your local realtor.Fixing up your home can be fun and often times very profitable even when youre only doing a few easy home improvement projects.  Home improvement projects can improve the look and value of your home dramatically.  Many of us avoid home improvement projects due to their expense.  And it can become expensive! Do your homework and you should not experience any surprises!There are many things to ask yourself when looking to increase the value of your home through home improvement projects.  One of the neat tricks you can do when creating some easy home improvement projects is to add some trim around the top of your ceiling. Like crown molding, which really enriches the beauty of any home. After you have decided on and planned for your first home improvement projects, new window coverings and upgraded flooring should receive attention along with Interior painting and exterior painting. Also,[http://billigmonclerjakke.eu moncler jakke], at Home Depot they have a section of books on literally any home improvement projects you can imagine.  Leave the landscaping for the end, this would be your final step.Also, you will want to be practical when deciding on your home improvement! You can very easily waste money, where money is not needed.  For example, If your fence is in dire need of repair, don’t think that by painting it you will hide the real problem. You need a new fence, period!Here are some things to think about before you say go! 1) Does your home improvement project add space, function or added benefits to the area? 2) Does the home improvement project make the area more attractive, not only to you but to others? 3) Does the home improvement project make significant positive changes to the home?    Each of these things is something to take into consideration.  Unfortunately, many homeowners don’t properly plan ahead, don’t have the budget to cover the costs and re-mortgage their homes or take out other home improvement loans to help.  Many landscaping projects can be done throughout the year but it can be easier and more enjoyable during the summer.  Families that have allergies or respiratory problems should be careful about what chemicals may have been used in the manufacture of finished products.  Allowing problems to remain increases the risk of damage to your house.  Some people use home improvement as a creative outlet, and if it makes you happy then go for it! I personally enjoy making repairs around the house knowing the job is getting done right! But, if that isn’t your cup of tea, then once go with a professional, you should get multiple quotes before making your choice of who to use.  The fact is that home improvement debts are easily avoided by simple planning.  Once all the work is completed you will be very happy with the end results of all your hard work.

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