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That his wife suffering from uremia requires huge cost of treatment, after returning from work in Guangdong, Shaanxi husband had left a note walked out, no longer in touch.
Zhou University hurriedly fled the ward, is tantamount to forcing their loved ones on the road to ruin, the family pushed to the edge of a cliff.
"My mother said, if he can come back, he is willing to apologize, look at our face,titoli moncler moncler outlet, my mother could forgive him." Zhou University, 16-year-old daughter, said his father's departure, and how much it hurt her only two year-old sister.
Condemnation does not reduce the damage of the family. However, far more than he hurt a person?
"My baby has not come back it, not to Xi'an friends ......" under hot weather, breast drenched put his hand monkey, bewildered said.
Although seriously ill wife to leave his son Zhou University of things has passed three days, may Luoyun Chun and his wife also did not know. Behind her, painted white lime Tsuchiya has been for some years, the house's west, east opened close to the "blessing" of the little door - is the son of a residence.
"Fu" on the door has some see. Narrow, shabby door, lifeless white walls in the background, convey sentimental atmosphere.
said that after the "Five" (referring to Zhou University) married, no place to live, but no money to build a house, she and her husband could not put out a house across the small,http://satodamai.com/bbs/honey/honey.cgi?%252525253e+result:+chosen+n, give them live.
Speaking of two people, the elderly were going through the sweet potato slices hand stopped.
Has 68-year-old son looked at the door, shook his head.
Behind her a few meters away, face the vicissitudes of his wife Zhou Min Choi is squatting on the ground, quietly smoking a cigarette.
A few months ago the couple had divorced
Suppliers Qingshan township south of the county from less than 20 kilometers, along the winding mountain winding mountain path, will soon be seen in a lush green hills into the village.
Village concrete road repair is very clean, roadside corn, vegetable,hollister men, gratifying. Asked Zhou University abandoned wife thing, many villagers chose silence. But there are also acts of weeks at the University of villagers angry and puzzled, "husband and wife have done for so long, have children, and then how to say, my wife is sick, can not walk away when her husband left ah!"
Previously, it was reported that Zhou University, and his wife worked in a couple of years ago, divorce, marital quarrels in fact it is just mouth it. In couple seems truly divorce, or something between March and April this year. "My baby (referring weeks University) last year from Guangdong back, brought back seven or eight thousand dollars, a wife too little money, got into a fight, said he was lazy."
Luoyun Chun said that beginning, the two bicker only intermittently, until this year,http://www.imc-e.net/thread-1740225-1-1.html, one day, because Zhou University beat the child, it really opened downtown divorce. "One night, Zhou University of watching TV, wife not to look too too late, they fight together,nike acg nike air jordan, the results of the side sleeping granddaughter made complaints sentence was a slap son,http://aibeihaidao.net/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=87383,adidas f10 trx tf prodirectsoccer adidas, wife not promised." Luoyun Chun said,abercrombie luxembourg la marque abercrombie, The couple divorced trouble for a while, his son leave, and later his wife divorce petition invested in water-rich commercial County court, but later through court mediation, and no off into.
Feng Shuqin withdrawal of the complaint is, Why did you want to leave, and later to withdraw, nobody speak clearly.
Zhou's eldest daughter say, a child feel good parental relationship, although his father rarely at home, but he is okay. Last parents' divorce, she was still at school, did not know.
University and Feng Shuqin weeks earlier marriage, Feng Shuqin had been working in Guangdong, and soon after the marriage, because the crops do not make money, the couple were working in Shenzhen and Xi'an. Tai Qiannian, later had a second daughter, Feng Shuqin children at home, go out to work by the week, but two weeks out of college did not come back.
At home, Feng Shuqin while children, while also doing crops alive. All the village with his wife, she hopes her husband's income can be more so, give the little girl to buy milk for the eldest daughter to school, and not so tight a bar.
"She is my baby feel (that week University) lazy, afraid to move, which he is lazy Yo!" Luoyun Chun said, more than a decade ago, Zhou University, was diagnosed with hepatitis B,baskets pas cher femme nike baskets air max 90 homme, then there is no good governance, and once back to work , thin only 87 kilos. "Sick body, of which there are too much effort to go to work?"
For a height of seven meters of the people, eighty kilos of weight how to prevent parents worried. Zhou Min Choi said the son of migrant workers for many years, tired and bitter, always thinking can have more money to send some home, so I live frugally, the sick can not bear to eat nutritional supplements, before the walk, the younger son still in the county to He caught a few Chinese herb ...... "Do you think,nike shop online, eat a breakfast of two small buns for a dollar, in the past are hard labor, which gnaw into?" Zhou Min Choi said.
The couple are not the same rating villagers
In the village, people evaluate , far better than the week university.
"Rural women with children is not easy, it is necessary to take care of the baby, but also work in the fields, she has been at home all these years, these two things are done well,mulberry summer sale, is hard to come by." Castle Village Main Renwang Min bolt home and not far from Zhou, his impression of is "very competent" work "altogether, agile."
2005, married the son of the king of China bolt near neighbors came to help, Feng Shuqin on the arrangements for the chef to cook along the way. Generally, do dozens, hundreds of people in the village wedding, a chef be accompanied by several helper, the results of that on Feng Shuqin a helper, the chef was kind enough to fit very well, which makes the king of China tied one pair of her admiration.
Wang Min bolt daughter to lift Feng Shuqin, is full of praise, saying that such a capable woman in rural areas which is really rare.
Zhou University, Wang Min bolt is some view. Two years ago the weather drought, as the village accountant Wang China bolt initiative we dug wells,karen millen crochet dress karen millen watches, with well irrigated. When digging, the villagers came to help, you can sit at home Week university is not moving, he had to find a few weeks, have been rejected; later dug wells, Zhou was carrying a bucket to draw water University, was he a pass taunt, results of the two kicked a back.
He brought some of the villagers, said he was "not a man to say." This "say not" in the village Yuqiu Ju view, is a little different from ordinary people,http://cgi.www5c.biglobe.ne.jp/~tito/cgi-bin/aska/aska.cgi, temper, "strong", temper impatient.
University of childhood grew up watching Zhou Zhou Jufang memories, weeks or very smart kid, I do not know how with the disease later, just for the individual the same.
Zhou University has liver disease concerned, the village a lot of people do not know, just felt he was getting thin. Luo Yunchun complain that the daughter always suspected his son earn less, the last to go to Shenzhen, the wife said, can not earn money do not come back.
To this argument, the daughter Zhou University Zhou Yaqing think there is no thing, and she does not think parents always contradictory feelings because of money.
May bring money, Luo Yunchun old married couple on some regret. A few years ago, Zhou University to the south to work, or into a distant relative open yard, giving less money does not say, but also often work overtime, contradict the foreman few weeks, the results were driven out. There is an uncomfortable thing to let an old married couple, a few years ago, they played an old married couple ready to give their coffin, to discuss several sons have money, you can come up with weeks of college for a long time no money, and later to 150 yuan They handed hands, I asked, I discovered that his son are they on the money, the money or his father went to the house to borrow. Finally, the old couple did not want to, again the money back to him.
He ran, threw the burden of his wife and daughter
For weeks at the University of illness, Zhou Yaqing, said his father's illness and the impression is not so bad, but in recent years seems to have healed the sick. But Zhou University of illness is not serious really serious? Serious and to what extent? Is how to treat? Due to his long home, no one can say clearly.
In the village, a mention sick, no one afraid. After all, the sick, especially chronic diseases, not only torture, but also dragged the family. "Eat less and drink less points are nothing, is the fear of disease, especially serious illness, a family would be ruined!" Change Bangladesh villagers suffering from a decade of cervical disease, because it is chronic, not hospitalized, every newspaper medicine fee is 4.6 yuan - "my home two baby, are in school, and now the South situation is not good, working and good to play, get a disease, little by little, out of the money went."
The village currently flies the most constraints that have seriously ill patients family. Du Qingshan Township deputy mayor said, compared to weeks of college, Feng Shuqin, heavier village there are sick, some of the families of patients with hemiplegia in bed, flies are also very bitter.
2006,http://218.26.12.59/jyw/home.php?mod=space&uid=261239, the new combined therapy was popular in the village of Castle Peak up. Previously, the villagers attitudes toward the disease are the "carry" really "carry" is not passed, only to the hospital. Thus, many people go to the hospital until the time that may have been delayed became seriously ill.
According to Zhou University relatives say that after weeks of liver disease was found to have never been in a hospital, but did not have time to go to therapy, is to be able to make more money on the outside. But did not think he did not fall, his wife was suffering from a serious illness.
June 2009, that soon, Feng Shuqin suddenly covered with puffy University of migrant workers in the week, have swollen eyes rolling into even. Xi'an check, before we know too that uremia. The bad news, she almost Mongolia. However, a strong personality Feng Shuqin still go back loan of 10,000 yuan of money, was admitted to hospital in Xi'an.
Feng Shuqin said that the hospital that day, she was most looking forward to is to be able to come back with her husband.
July 5, week to get the message back from the University of Guangdong. Can the next morning, when Feng Shuqin woke up, her husband has gone wholly unnoticed without a trace, a farewell letter and a divorce settlement, heavy knock her.
"When I knew you had uremia, when I suddenly silly ...... doctor said, dialysis is thirty-four one thousand a month, if the transplant was spent thirteen four million families have to seventy-eight pairing million. exorbitant medical expenses for me, that is an astronomical figure, these days I have been thinking, my way out where there are two children, and now I only let you down, I only have to escape this reality ...... "
Week university "escape", and he tried to get rid of the fear of huge medical expenses, however, puts a greater fear thrown to his wife and daughter.
Husband "escape" of the day, Feng Shuqin nobody in the hospital a corner, stay for a long time.
Helpless Situation
Illness of his wife and daughter when their choice is most needed, "escape", Zhou University, was condemned acts from all aspects of society. But in Castle Village, talking about it, people in addition to anger, more frustration with the status quo. "Well, now the Southern economic downturn,mulberry bags clutch, work is not good fight, and he went out, can you do?" For weeks the University of "escape", a year-round working outside villagers believe that week run, the future will have to come back, or The village people how to see him? Moreover, the economic situation is now outside is not very good, with physical living, for him, is not an easy task.
Castle Village has nearly 400, more than 1,400 people. 2007 per capita income of 1,500 yuan, in 2008 was 1,800 yuan, the villagers' income comes mainly from plant crops,http://www.lishenghuo.com.cn:9000/bbs/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=72646, to work. Crops which accounted for 30% of revenue, and the remaining sixty-five percent comes from the villagers outside the home.
Go out to work mainly in the village of young people, accounting for 30% of the total population over the years, or they go hand in hand, or go out on their own, but most of the work in place at the Guangdong area. In the factory, the income is good, there are more than two thousand yuan a month's pay, stronger than farming at home I do not know how many times. One young man told reporters that in 2005, when the light will be able to work a year she saved 2-30000 yuan, from beyond the end of last year, the situation is not. "Migrant workers to good health, willing to contribute, eyes alive. Poor health, not to mention the outside work, survival is the problem." He said.
This year 24-year-old Wang Yan has experienced six years of work. Did not go out the last few days, they returned to the village. "The financial crisis impact on the large coastal cities in Guangdong, this time out, thinking about the economy has been warmer, the result went to look, the situation has not improved."
Wang Yan said that before the wages were lower, which is 1,500 yuan to 1,600 yuan a month, is now 860 yuan wages directly, not food, accommodation,http://www.balibali.com/cgi-bin/bbs/petit.cgi?;, no option but to come back.
Like him, most of the first half of young migrant workers back. Because the village is nothing alive, only helped Dry crops alive, playing day laborers.
According to the villagers estimated revenue this year we will be a lot less than in previous years.
Village Main bolt that in order to get rich, economic development, planning a last village chicken, pig two farms,prix de air jordan site officiel jordan, but the lack of funds, have not yet received breeds.
"At present, the village is still engaged in an electronics factory, the future can solve the employment problem 50-60 people," Wang Min plug in seems to work is not a permanent solution, after he was looking forward to better business efficiency village, able to solve revenue welfare and a series of thorny issues.
"If my father came back just fine."
July 18, at the University of weeks left in the third morning, Zhou Yaqing leaning seriously ill mother, embarked on the way home. Originally July 16 afternoon Feng Shuqin was discharged, but due to his mother to buy drugs and medical devices, Zhou Yaqing unable to catch the bus back to South, had much delayed one day.
Although the experience of being abandoned by his father's pain, but make good news is that well-intentioned people around so much. Although his father is gone, but the community has given him the courage to live a life.
In the media coverage of the University of abandoned wife a week later, Feng Shuqin has been public concern caring people. Within a few days, only there are more than 60,000 yuan donation,moncler giacca doudoun moncler, the money can at least allow the mother to get treatment for some time.
First Affiliated Hospital of Xi'an Jiaotong University, declared classroom dialysis medical personnel, compared to hospitalized for dialysis treatment, dialysis patients go home on their own is the only way to save money without affecting the effect. Hospitalized for several days, they have knowledge of peritoneal dialysis teach and her daughter, as long as strict accordance with the operating procedures do go back, with the same hospital treatment.
It is reported that home dialysis Feng Shuqin initial period, each spent about 2,500 yuan, the future will gradually be reduced to 800 yuan each. In contrast, donations more than 60,000 yuan, and can only be temporary emergency solution.
said that although he is also a medical student, but in her view the dialysis process is very complex, especially sterilization, among peritoneal dialysis requires a separate operation, and must be sterile, disinfected several times a day, This condition is very backward in all aspects of rural areas, not only easy to do, and it costs energy. "If my father came back just fine." On the bus heading to South, has played many phone calls to his father's frustration. Although my father so gone, my heart is not really want him, but if his father could come back, after all, contribute to the treatment of the mother. "My mother said, if he can come back to take care of her, look at the face of my sister, she would forgive his father."
Zhou Yaqing speaking, his father's phone has been shut down, and now her great psychological pressure, because for her, she was one man alone is home to mothers dialysis, is not an easy task.
Zhou Yaqing 16 years old, last year, just in Xianyang, a health school. The sick mother, father away,http://www.yjzkw.cn/home.php?mod=space&uid=20290, let her all the good ideas have become untouchable.
For her, after September if he could afford to pay school fees, can go to school, are still unknown. "I do not want to think too much, then the difficulties, I would not leave her mother to leave the house." Zhou Yaqing said.