I have been ready many stories about college student still getting bare spankings at there age because they still live at home and those are the rules I want to know if there are kids who do not live at home but are still getting bare bare spanking because the parents are paying for college and that is there rule’s. As long as we pay for college you still get spanked as we see fit. Whats your story.? thanks
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are you a college student and still get spanked by your parent?
Jan 25, 2013
Plant a tree for me
by: Mum of College student
Bing, you felt that if all parents used Tyrone’s Dad method there would not be many branches left on trees on campuses.
Maybe parents of College children could plant some more trees-you think that might help?
Jan 23, 2013
No branches on the trees
by: Bing
If all parents resorted to the punishment inflicted on poor Tyrone’s body, there would not be many branches left on trees in campuses!
Jan 22, 2013
spanking
by: joh
Oh Tyrone ….I’m sure it can’t be that bad…!!
Jan 16, 2013
Do I Still Get Spanked By My Parents?
by: Tyrone
NO… I don’t get spanked. . . I get WHIPPED!!! I am a 18 yr. old college freshman who actively plays football & my dad came down this past weekend, made me cut a long switch & tore me all up with it. YES, I had to get the switch that put such hurt on me.
He literally whipped me all over the campus because I failed one of my required classes this past semester. Of course, he & my momma is affording my tuition so I guess he feels that I am still a part of his household.
And YES–I screamed & cried real hard because that switch hurts!!! Has anyone ever got whipped with a switch? Tell me about it?.
Jan 14, 2013
Horror upon horrors
by: Kev
Spare a thought for the poor sons of Greg. This individual(Greg)craves advice – to attack and humiliate his poor grown sons – from an unusual male like Brian who from way back surrendered his individuality and masculinity to his sex crazed-power dazed befuddled parents!.
Jan 09, 2013
Father of teenage boys
by: Greg
Brian, as a father of older teens I would very much like to know your perspective and share mine with you. My email address is widgetgreg@aim.com. Thanks
Dec 30, 2012
Response to Adam
by: Brian
I am 23 and I am still spanked by my parents. If you want to talk to me just post an email or something. I am kind of tired of everyone saying it is wrong and immoral when it is not. There is nothing to be ashamed about if your parents see your body or spank you except that you misbehaved enough to need it
Dec 29, 2012
This is the worst
by: JUSTA
No child should be spanked or smacked bare bum. For non-parents to punish young adults on the bare bum & or with other private areas exposed is extra wrong! Parents who perpetrate such acts to their own flesh and blood are unthinkably evil. For mothers to punish grown sons & fathers grown daughters is even more,heinous!
Young men and women have the right to privacy of their bodies. Deliberate private areas exposure and invasion, can be devastating for those involved. Invasion of these rights for whatever reason is destructive and malicious;these parts are theirs and are not there to shame and hurt them, that’s why they are named private.
As we read about a young 18 year old male being brutalized by his mother. (She employs among other things guilt and ‘green mail’+ moral outrage), as a licence to punish. She might as well in her outrage castrate her son, because there are many cases reported, where the persons involved have been emasculated and harmed for life!.
Despite protestations, all who deprive unwilling adult children of their right to privacy and if you like modesty, have ulterior motives. Most of which are unclean motives and incorporate power & unbridled lust!
What to do now? Beg forgiveness of your children and never molest them in that way again.
As for the adult children involved? Refuse to be cowed into the foul behavior your parent unlawfully ‘green mails’ you into. Watch them cringe as you promise to make their demands public!!
From now on never ever let your parents destroy your bodies, your right to privacy-your life!
Dec 28, 2012
Your mum has no right to………………….
by: Hamus
To Anonymous College Teen of 18: Your mother has no right to spank you bare bum. Sad to say it is obvious that her concern hides other motives.
I can understand vaguely that she may wish to spank you to correct you. However, by making you expose your private areas to her, she exposes herself for what she is, a sex hungry woman.
She loves to see you cringing in pain while visually feasting on your youthful submissive cringing shamefully exposed body.
Tell her she is a frustrated immoral woman, who should do better things then playing with her son’s body, dignity and rights!
Dec 28, 2012
Are your sons not ashamed ??
by: Pete
Adam, are you not ashamed to spank your precious adult sons? It is obvious that you love to have power over them. At least I hope that they are not punished bare butt, if so, then you display a perverse desire to observe their nakedness, which only their future spouses should observe and delight in.
Dec 24, 2012
dads and sons
by: adam
I am the father of 2 sons, 21 and 23. I still spank occasionally for bad behavior. I would like to talk to other fathers who also spank adult sons for bad behavior.
Would also like to talk to young adult men whose fathers still spank.
Please reply through this thread.
Thanks!.
Dec 21, 2012
Im 19 and still spanked
by: Eliane
Well Im 19 years old girl im studing at colege and im lining with my parentes. when i get bad grades or ot im non respest the house rules or i dont do the home shores y get spanking onmy bare buttwith the belt or a paddle.
Dec 18, 2012
Spanked College Teen
by: Anonymous
Well, I got spanked a few weeks ago and I am an 18 year old guy and a freshman in college. And, I played football in high school.
I hadn’t had one since I was about 14 and this is the first time I told anyone. Yeah, I was really upset when my mom threatened to spank me and then did so for wrecking the car (I didn’t have permission to use her car).
I felt sick when she announced the punishment, and I protested about being to old which only made it worse. She said it didn’t matter that I was now in college, because I needed one as much as when I was younger….I could have refused, but then I would get no support for college.
What was I to do? I just wanted to get it over with. Boy was I wrong. She treated me like I was 12! She spanked me after a long lecture about driving safe, after having me stand there in my underpants….She told me that I was going to get a good old fashioned spanking, underpants down! I was so nervous.
When she was spanking me, I was in so much pain I thought back to when I was younger and in the same situation. I refused to cry, but I yelled a lot!.
Dec 02, 2012
Not at all convincing
by: Johno
Jordan, your reasoning that your success in life was due to being spanked as an adult is incredibly flawed. It is like saying: ” because I always ate 3 peppermints a day,I’m now a billionaire!.
Dec 01, 2012
To Brain
by: Jordan
I am not sure how common it is for college age students to be spanked by there parents.It happens for sure but I don’t get the feeling that it common thing and I feel it should never be a common thing!.
But it does happen and it happened to me a few time I was spanked by parents 3 or 4 times when I was in my early 20s. I am now a successful married, professional male who just turned 30 earlier this year. So, it worked for me at least.
Nov 20, 2012
Indefensible position
by: Anonymous
Jamie, your position is legally indefensible.In most of modern societies your are coming of age at 18-21 years and your are considered an adult around these ages.
So spanking a young adult is an offence or a qualified physical assault or abuse indictable and often punishable by a jail term. Legislation provides other ways to punish a young adult who breaks up the law(civil or criminal code, professional rules or by-laws, etc.
Consider also this punishment from the sociological, psychological or psychosexual point of view, you will come to the conclusion that it’s the most aberrant form of punishment you could find for young adults of this age. Think only about the quality of interpersonal relations developed between the parents and the young adult.
Nov 19, 2012
Interesting possibilities now arise…
by: Rene
JamieW, suggests, ( among others) that ‘a person’ he probably means all-and-sunder’ should be spanked for misdeeds!.
May I suggests the following scenario:
” The family gets together once a week” and anyone of the family members gets spanked for misdeeds (since all humanity falls short of the ideal) this could surpass the family picnic. So the mothers and fathers spank their children , according to age, then the children spank their parents. The in laws spank each other.
Even grandma and grandpa in their nineties should not be spared. Only the babies and very young are let off with warnings or suspended sentences. And at long last we will be ( crying loudly and smarting awfully-with red and blue bums galore, be headed for Utopia!.
Nov 19, 2012
Agree with Brian
by: JamieW
I have to agree that a person should be subject to whatever disciplinary methods work best for them, and age or marital status should not matter.
Self-discipline is a great thing but not everyone has enough of it, and need discipline enforced from an outside source.
Nov 19, 2012
Well…
by: Anonymous
Do you realise, Brian, the extent of the regression your are undergoing through these bare bottom spankings at your age.
Most of parents are not even contemplate punishing their 10 and so kids this way.If you deserved to be punished, there are surely more appropriate ways to do it.
Nov 19, 2012
As said another contributor…………..
by: Josh
Brian, you wrote and I quote “(Additionally, many that are my age and aren’t spanked behave in ways that deserve some punishment.” If spanking is the method to cure bad behavior,then, as Belamby said in his comment headed: “They screw it up” all humans better get spanked.
Maybe it’s time according to this logic, to make everybody get spanking from their parents as a cure-all for bad behavior. This could as ‘anonymus’ suggested be done in marriage by the partner, by the mother in law. Or even by visiting the old parents in the nursing home, and submitting to a spanking session.
Nov 17, 2012
to last comment
by: Brian
I realize that some my age are married and out or reach of spankings. Though most that I know that are near my age aren’t yet.
Additionally, many that are my age and aren’t spanked behave in ways that deserve some punishment.
Often they are immature enough to need a spanking themselves. I feel that people should use what ever discipline methods work for them
Nov 16, 2012
Logic +
by: Belamby
‘Anonymus’, comes up with a very logical statement:
” if spanking keeps the 2 mentioned individuals on the straight-and-narrow, then their partners better spank them or they will surely go astray!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Nov 15, 2012
When they got married…
by: anonymus
I just wonder what Brian and Savannah will do when they got married. As it is now, they will surely need a partner who can spank them when they are going astray!.
It’s seems to me absurd for disciplinary reasons but not for erotic reasons. Do they consider that at their age most of lads and gals are already married and out of reach of any parental spankings.
What a shame!.
Nov 09, 2012
Indecent
by: yvan125
If you are a girl of that age and a college student, my opinion is that it sucks to be spanked maybe bare bottomed by a person of the opposite sex.
It’s more than inappropriate, it can be immoral and indecent!.
Nov 09, 2012
Your reasoning is starnge.
by: JUSTA
Savannah J, your reasoning is strange spanking is fine, for you,a fully developed male( or is it female?)because of the following:
* you were spanked at 8
* you are used to being spanked
Surely being spanked at 8 is different to being spanked at 18?.
I hope you are not stripped of your clothes and dignity, if not then you can perhaps except it with such ease. But if your step dad strips you as well,it is time to take a few strips of him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That body belongs to you!!!!!
Nov 08, 2012
I still get spanked
by: Savannah J.
I’m 18 and in college and I do still get spanked by my step-dad. I grew up getting spanked by him after he married my mom which was when I was 8, and he made it clear that if I still lived at home I would still get spanked in college.
It isn’t really a big deal. I am used to being spanked. I mean I still squeal and cry and stuff during it cause it hurts so much, but I agree that I should be spanked if I need it until I am on my own. I only get it about once a week now, which is about how much I got it all through high school.
Nov 04, 2012
If it has to be it has to be?????????!!!!
by: Belamby
Whilst disagreeing with the situation Brian accepts:
* I can see his point, from his point of view(not mine)
* ‘I rest my case.’
* wish him the very best.
B.
Oct 29, 2012
I see nothing wrong
by: Brian
If I accept it as a consequence for my actions how is it wrong. It works and makes me want to behave better and I do not see anything wrong with them seeing my privates like they have my whole life. we are family
Oct 28, 2012
They “screw it up”
by: Belamby
Brian, should any logic exists in this matter & is acted upon, then your parents should get a spanking of the severest kind for exposing your private and personal male areas as well as physically & (potentially) emotionally/mentally damaging you.
Because every time they violate you -an adult- that way, they behave perversely out-of-bounds, and if you wish ‘screw it up.’ The previous 5 commentators,(not including Brian)summed up your situation plus consequences,with insight and wisdom!.
The last unanimous commentator provides your parents the option, remove the worst vileness of their actions, by no longer exposing private areas of your body which are yours and yours alone!.
Oct 27, 2012
Anyway…
by: Anonymous
Anyway Brian, you are too old to be punished this way. Ask your parents for other kinds of punishments when you screw it up. And try to behave like a young adult and especially never accept pulling down your pants and undies at your age to get spanked.
Oct 27, 2012
making the choice
by: Zamut
Brian:
Your choice, best wishes, Z
Oct 26, 2012
not bitter
by: Brian
They rarely spank me, and when they do it is bare butt, but I do not resent them for it. I only get it when I really screw up!.
Oct 25, 2012
Always power and lust
by: yvan125
I fully agree with Zamut’s advice. You can’t imagine the serious psychological consequences of such an aberrant parental behaviour:
* loss of self-esteem
* loss of self confidence
* chronic depression
* homoeroticism,
* fetishism
* long and costly psychotherapies… I can speak from my own experience.
As Zamut say it so well, all boils down to power and lust. All of this boils down to power and lust.Please please take action quickly before it’s too late.
Oct 25, 2012
Correct implication
by: Josh
Anonymous – a young lady of 21-in this forum she still gets spanked by her dad for being late home.
Father simply takes her over his knee and strip off her panties. Zamut is right that male is power hungry and lusty.
Pain caused by leaving the panties on, would hardly make a pain difference.So that father is looking at forbidden things and doing forbidden things, how dreadful for a daughter to be in that power of that man.
Tell him to keep his filthy fingers off you, or you will inform the authorities, he needs no mercy or concern, tell also your relatives about him!.
Oct 24, 2012
Been through it
by: Zamut
Brian,it is sad that economics makes you accept as inevitable your spankings from mum and dad.
But I hope at least that the spanking is not – as is often the case – with under pants down. If this occurs then be aware that this means that your father and perhaps mother, have a sick desire to see the private areas of the boy (or girl)this they have no right to do!.
I am aware that some have a sick desire to observe the obvious beauty of their naked children as well as the desire to have power over them. But such a desire is wrong, this beauty is no longer theirs. Only the future spouse has a right to observe and delight in this beauty.
By spanking naked and exercising power lust, they are stealing something which is not theirs. In doing so, they also may do immense psychological damage to their off spring.
My advice: break with them, before they break you! And I speak from bitter, bitter experience!.
Oct 22, 2012
I get it
by: Brian
I have been in Grad School for a year, and my parents still spank me. They believe as long as the support me financially I am subject to their rules and that means spankings if I mess up or slack off.
Aug 28, 2012
It Happens
by: Anonymous
While counseling university students, I discovered sometimes coeds are indeed spanked by parents. Although it may happen, I was not aware of any males being paddled or spanked by their parents.
So far as I was able to ascertain in these cases, it’s usually a paddling administered the coed’s mother. The likelihood is greater when the young woman lives at home. Threats appear to be more common than actual discipline. Any resentments appear to be minimal. Typically, the young women admit they deserved it. That said, I am aware of two instances in which fathers administered the punishment.
A primary causality is associated with both the shift from government grants to private loans as the primary means of financing higher education and rising tuition costs. By the time their daughter enters college, her parents have already spent at least a quarter of a million dollars getting her there.
If she is the product of an exclusive private secondary education (a prep school), the costs of raising her may approach half a million dollars! In other words, she is an investment. Adding another hundred thousand dollars, or more, in higher education costs places a significant burden on most families.
Then, there is the necessity of a higher education in today’s workplace. These days, the concern is less about pay than in getting that first job. Having a college degree is de rigueur. This is especially true for young woman in the workforce. While college graduates may not be paid as they once were, their chances of employment are statistically greater.
When the above factors are combined in the minds of most parents, they are less likely to tolerate foolishness that parents of their grandparents’ generation might have let pass. Thus, while it might be politically incorrect to put one’s 20-year-old daughter over the parental knee after some adolescent behavior, when the doors are shut and the windows are closed, practicality sometimes trumps propriety in today’s economic environment.
Aug 26, 2012
spanked in college
by: Anonymous
Im a 21yr old girl and I live at home and I have an 11oclock curfew and if im more then 15min. late I get a spanking dad pulls down my panties and puts me over his knees he uses a paddle on my tuchie and it hurts, I asked dad when im going to be to old to be spanked he told me as long as you live at home your tuchie can be spanked!.
Aug 24, 2012
Awhile ago, but…
by: JamieW
Now in my 50′s and a parent myself, my first personal experience with this subject was some time ago. My parents were firm believers in corporal punishment, and when I was in college and graduate school the spankings continued even though I wasn’t living at home full-time.
I’m firmly convinced that the totality of the way I was raised, including the spankings, shaped me into the happy and successful person I am today.
Our daughter was spanked through her college years, and is now very happy and successful in her career and personal life. Our sons are 21 and 18, pursuing their college studies, and still subject to spanking as we feel they need it as well.
Aug 18, 2012
From Proverbs ,6
by: Anonymous
I would like to add for you Brian this quotation about your predicament, from Proverbs,6:
” Lay aside immaturity and live
and walk in the way of insight.”
Aug 18, 2012
Advice
by: Anonymous
Brian, I have only one advice to you. Please leave your home right away to avoid more dire psychological consequences on your present and future bahaviour. It’s abnormal and traumatic the spanking experiences you are living at your age. Meanwhile,tell your parents to have the decency to respect your modesty and privacy and not lay a hand on you anymore.
Jul 07, 2012
Grad School
by: Brian
I am now in grad school, and my butt is still subject to spankings from my parents if I screw up on anything
Jan 23, 2012
Take off my hat
by: Jake
Zamut I take my hat of for your courage & for getting your brother from the clutches of your father who is not a father at all.
Sorry but I think that your parents are only crying crocodile tears-so sorry they lost you and your brother to lust upon.
Good on you, brave dear friend!
Dec 14, 2011
Think of your future
by: Zamut
After reading what Belamby revealed, I never allowed my father to even lay a finger on me.
I also was blackmailed into accepting his spanking because I was supported by my parents as a student of 20.
I left home and pay for my studies by some borrowings and casual work. When I left my parents pleaded with me to change my mind, promising never to touch me again. But I have broken with them forever, and am now rescuing my younger brother from their clutches.
Of course, it should not have ben mr Belamby that made me leave, but his insight triggered it of. It was as if my eyes suddenly opened, and I realised my horible state.
Even now about a month after I left home, I stil feel the affect my father had on my life-I have dificulty relating to girls, but I feel I’m healing.
It is clear that correspondent Brian is not only spanked by his father but by his mother as well.
My mother never spanked me, but always watched as I cringingly was told by father al your clothes of now-and you are forgetting something Zamut. Then I quickly pulled back my foreskin in total submission to his lust. The shame of my mother watching with interest and approval when my father spanked me on my bare bum and inner thighs, stil haunts me. But as Belamby said: ‘Long live Freedom. Nearly every day my parents are waiting outside college asking me to come home and pleading for forgiveness,sobbing tears. But they had their chance and I’m free!
Dec 12, 2011
What are you still spanked for.
by: yvan125
You don’t seem ashamed at all of being spanked at 22 by your parents. What are you acting up to deserve these spankings?Tell us more about the reasons, the frequency and the intensity of them. Are you bare-bottomed spanked? Why do you not try behaving or abiding by your parents’ rules in order to avoid these shameful chastisements.Do your college buddies know that you are so disciplined by your parents? How do they react to it? Do you think that your parents could use better ways to keep you in the straight and narrow? If all you write is true, I have al lot a sympathy for you.
Dec 11, 2011
Grad School
by: Brian
I was spanked by my parents all through undergrad, and now it is continuing into gradschool.. I am still financially dependent on them at 22 and they told me as long as they were paying I had to submit to them for punishment. I don’t get it to often, and I usually deserve it when I do so it isn’t too bad
Dec 02, 2011
How interesting
by: Rene
I talked about the Forum and the conclusions that Beamby summed up to a friend who also was spanked by his father when over 20.
He was surprised about it and said it describes my situation almowt in detail.He also felt that the conclusions about attempted brainwashing was real. By the way my friend escaped, the situation and has nothing to do with his father.
Oct 25, 2011
Long live Freedom……………………
by: Belamby
Belamby to Ivan:
Delighted to hear you made the break. Just be aware that my advice had to be generic, and if at all useful, should be adapted & or included in your ultimate actions. However, having escaped from those who stifled and oppressed your morality, reasoning, and nearly your sanity; you are now well on the way of self redemption. Be aware that when breaking away from those who brainwash- full recovery is always possible.
By now you also would be aware that yours was a typical brainwashing situation adapted to the family with all 3 D?s present. (I aligned them to Ivan?s circumstances) Dependence (succour and finance) Depravation (unless you co-operate, you will be deprived-incorporates isolation e.g. in punishment or torture, victim is isolated)-Disorientation (is this really happening to me-is this real?). If one D is noted no problem; 2 D?s red alert; 3 D?s, run for your life! Always in brainwashing circumstances the following are present to a lesser or major degree: informants (your sister) sensory and sexual stimulation, (I don?t need to go into detail). Destruction of morale and “esprit de corps,”
Stockholm syndrome: (sympathy, understanding and appreciation of motives behind ormentor?s/captor?s actions.
All amounts to Prisoner of War stuff, modified to resemble sensitivity training then once again adapted to the family. I seriously suspect that your tormentor is into occult practises, interestingly those who practise this type of family discipline can like activists in a totalitarian regime justify any activity. Torture and killing are now renamed character modification and elimination for the benefit of all. Best wishes for a very bright and wonderful future! B.
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Oct 20, 2011
My reaction to Belamby
by: yvan125
Thank you so much for your advice, Mr Belamby. As you have intuited it, I left the family roof to live in a student home for the school year. I am working part time as an invigilator in a boarding high school and with governemental loans I can pay for my tuition and make both ends meet. I didn’t return home since the end of the summer and I don’t know if I will return for Christmas. Anyway, the healing process has begun and I am now fully involved in my studies.
I realize that your diagnostic of my personal situation was right and accurate and I will try to work according to your advice. I also take into consideration your remarks on self-esteem, self-confidence and self-assertion. Thank you so much for your help and your support.
Yours truly
Yves
Oct 15, 2011
Leave Now!
by: Belamby
If Yvan’s story is not fantasy but factual then I give the following conclusion and remedy: Obviously, parents who spank their sons after 16 or 17 are not normal. And if they spank them bare or bare bum with everything exposed, up to and even after these are 20 years of age-they are highly abnormal and probably deviant. They indeed have or are in the process of emasculating their offspring psychologically and mentally. You have surrendered your will, reason and personality to unworthy people. Your father for sure and mother perhaps is twisted people, who enjoy having power over you. Your father more-than ?likely has a sexual urge to see you naked and to treat you sadistically. He does not treat you like a prison warden but like a Nazi concentration camp commander who experiments with you in his unbridled sexual lust. The proof of that assertion is that not one academic/teacher/Police officer /Minister of Religion/Welfare Authority or Institution will approve of what?s happening to you.
Your parents may pay for their children?s education, but is that worth the price you pay by losing self respect/esteem/worth, the prospect of marriage probably ruined. So to allow your parents continuation to destroy your future happiness must be avoided- no matter the sacrifice. Now while you still can question the situation and are not completely brainwashed, get out!. Don?t even spend a moment longer under his roof. Also hand him a letter just before you go ?with great detail about what he has done-and tell him that you will sent copies of this communication to all your relatives, and his Religious community. Just wait and see how he will beg you to change your mind and stay. But don?t hesitate leaving and even getting out of Uni and getting employment you are rescuing the one that matters, namely yourself. Be aware also, that your father sad though it is has forfeited his right to be your father. Also, I suggest that you consult a lawyer; because of the torment you suffered your parents may have to pay you compensation. Your sister apparently also is a willing accomplice-note, she will be enlisted by your parents to stay- but don?t!. Your brothers are also selectively abused and destroyed, by your father, help them! When you leave, contact them and help them escape-you may have to enlist the help of a Welfare organisation-but this must not continue! Your father will not get better but far worse as his madness progresses. So act now, by doing this I believe will become the man you should be a man who defends himself and others full of self esteem/purpose and yes happiness! I wish you the very best!
Sep 27, 2011
More information
by: yvan125
How old are you? Anyway, I have never heard of a college student slippered by his mum. You must be kidding. I don’t believe you, but if I am wrong, I would like to know how your reacted to this spanking? At home. mum stopped spanking me at 13 and since then dad was always spanking me even up to the end of ny ungrad years in college. I would like to exchange with you on this topic and compare our notes, if possible.
Sep 27, 2011
A Little Truth, please
by: Anonymous
Obviously, this person is a fetishist who is enjoying this attention. It’s probably not even a real story.
Oh, and the phrase “spare the rod, spoil the child” was first written in the 16th century by a critic of corporal punishment who meant it as sarcasm. Check it out.
Aug 14, 2011
spanked as a college student
by: Anonymous
I just mouthed off the other day . mom took me by the hand to the side of the sofa. First she explained what i did wrong, then she lowered my pants & my undies. she made me bend over the sofa arm ,took off her slipper and boy did she wear out my Tush ! i probably got 25 whacks ! But i think ,even though it hurt & stung like hell ,i did deserve it & it did help me alot !nn
Aug 12, 2011
still spanked
by: Anonymous
My dad still spanks me even for stupid things like the outher day I was walking around the house eating a hamburger and some got on the floor I got 20 smacks for that
Jul 07, 2011
Dave
by: Yvan
I didn’t read carefully your last message in which you wrote rhat you were an abused child or teen(?) I have a lot of sympathy for you and the way you seem to have got out of it. Don’t be worried for me, I am not mistreated or abused. Yes, my studies are central and very important for my future. But above all, I think that is totally in order for a parent to spank a 21 year old ungrad student if he is still living at his parents home. More twenty-somethings are nowadays choosing to live with their parents. This has the obvious benefits-full refrigerator of food,laundry magically washed, dried and returnrd as soon as it is placed in the basket and no-or seriously reduced rent,and utility bills plus the tuition fees for the college. It’s a big deal.If I decided to carry on living at my parents’house rather than getting a place of my own, I should accept the consequences, not least of which is having to suffer a good and proper spanking if I put a toe out of line. After all,I am no angel and most of the time, my lickingsot butt warmings are well deserved. So then, I am not abused, blackmailed or taken advantage of, I am just a growing-up kid living in a conservative family who spanks as long as your are living at home.
That is the comment that I wanted to bring about your well thought and sensitive last message. With friendship
Yves
Jul 07, 2011
Dave
by: Yvan
Dear Dave,
Rereading your messages, I realize that I left out some of your questions
1) My sister is younger than I (18 years) but is obviously the pet child or the model child of my parents. She is indeed very smart and I have never seen her being spanked. She might have been reprimanded a couple of times but never physically disciplined. I wish I could see her tushie tanned because she is not always nice to me.
2) I don’t think that any of my classmates at the university knows that I am still spanked snd this subject seldom comes out between us. I heard that one of my classmates was probably spanked for bad grades this winter semester. The reaction was one of surprise and bewilderment. Another classmate told ne that he even found that very cool. Anyway, if they come to know my situation, it’is the kind of reactions I could expect. By the way, I am a B+ student, somewhat withdrawn, who can easily go unoticed.
3) I have to tell you that I was and still is spanked in various positions, When I am spanked by hand, on dad’s lap it’is impossible to squirm. Because of his strenght, he can clamp down my little bottom and my genital organs between both of his legs and so I found myself caugtht in a stranglehold.
4) You would like me to point out my dad in the direction of other or substitute ways of punishing me. Good luck! My dad who was apanked by his parents till 25 years is an invicible believer in corporal punishments. Besides, the home tasks that you suggest to be done as punishments are precisely the reasons why I am still apanked.By the way, do you think that I will convince him by saying that no college student is spanked nowadays and it’s not appropriate to do it? He is always telling me that as long as I behave like a spoiled brat, I will be punished as such.
Thank you so much again for your kindly consideration of these complementary remarks. So long.
Jul 07, 2011
to Dave
by: yvan
Dear Dave.
I don’t know what happened but I just come across your three messages today and I find your comments very acurate and pertinent. Maybe, I don’t know very well how to use this forum or it functions.
I believe that what you are counseling to me is very realistic and practical but very hard to put into practice in my personal circumstances. To answer some of your questions, I wouldn’t say that my family is a loving family. The atmosphere is very tense and heavy,and,like in any traditional religious family, what is expected from us is good manners, politeness,obedience, respect of the parents, high performance at school and especially no sex at home. There is no intimacy or even friendship between my sister and I and also between my two younger brothers. My parents, dad, an ex- religious brother and mum, an ex sister are, me think. making up a good snd stable couple albeit very authoritarian, disciplinarian and strict. They are more just than loving. Now, my family looks like a stern boarding-school,the more since Dad had starting giving the strap to my 15 years old bro in his den for insolence and insubordination.
As you can see, i have no girl friend like almost all the other young men of my age because I don’t feel the need of it now. My studies at college are my main concern and besides, I don’t think that my parents might allow me to go out regularly before the end of my undergraduate atudies. By the way, I am still struggling with some teen age sexual problems like masturbation.I am very cautions now, since two years ago, I was caught jerking off by mum and soundly spanked in the bathroom by dad. My arse remembered it! I enjoy being dressed in denim short shorts and hanging about with younger boys. I could be gay: I am more attracted by nice men and youg men than women but I am not sure. I am rather ambivalent on this matter.
I thought that you were kidding when you hinted in your message that my sister could be allowed to spank me. No, it’s not the case. Why? Because, it would be improper and indecent in our religious conservative family.
Finally, I will take into consideration the guidelines that you set out for me. I don’t guarantee you that I would explain to dad as firmly and decisively as you the reasons why he has to stop spanking me, but I will try with all my energy and courage. Please, tell me more about your life, your age,your marital status, your profession, your hobbies, etc.
Thanks again for your insightful advice. So long
Cheers
Yves
Jul 07, 2011
Yvan 2/2
by: Dave
Because they have a 3000 characters I have to write in many section. How I just to remember whereI left off. I think it was at the point where I was asking you whether the spankings you recieve are spankings or abuse and if it is abuse you have to do something about it I do not want to here you say. But they are paying for college. Whats a sore butt if I get college paid for. Well there’s a big problem it more like blackmail. Do you have a girlfriend? Lets say you do what she where to say because we are girlfriend and boyfriend I will give you a spanking every time we see each other.(and no its not a playful spanking) It’s like the ones you get from your parents long and hard. What would you. Well she my girlfriend ya she is but it does not make it right. Do you have aunts and uncle’s do they know that you kids get spanked well maybe ask them to help you to talk to your parents. I think this will be very good for your selfiseam am maybe you will see yourself in a different light. Also your parents may feel that to they may not like the way you went about it but you stood up for yourself and at the end thats whats more important.You know your parents. Is College that important to you that you will give up your selfesteam. As for me I am a survival of child abuse so I know abit of what I am talking about. If I only got spanked like you I would be lucky but no way. It was belt rules and screwdrive for me and to finish it off the odd drowing in the lake.
Jul 07, 2011
Yvan
by: Dave
I had a few more questions and comments to write. You said that you have a part time job in a grocery store, Why not full time it’s the summer your college is over for now no? And if they do not have full time check some where else.
Are your parents loving towards you and your brothers and sister and is it a really parent child relationship meaning (Parents talk children listen or else) or do guys get along and can talk about anything with them. Is there love in the family kissing hugging all that sort of stuff or is it very strict. Your Mother and Father are they happy together do they get along or are they always frighting and you kids are caught in the middle. Now back to you getting spanked. Are you threated in public if you do not behave you will be getting a spanking or is the whole spanking kept silent. Your sister is younger right or older I do not remember if she is older is she allowed to spank you and your brothers? and if so how does she spank you. That last question was a bit nutty I know. But I did read some where where a sister or was it the brother who give there brothers and sisters spanking with the parent permission. Yvan think its time for you to talk to your parents about this whole spanking thing. I do not think its right. You should talk to them together explaining that you are in college now and college kid do not get spanked its unheard of. Well it is heard of but they do not have to know that. I think you will look at yourself in a complete different way if they were to stop. Ok they will come back my house my rules. Your answer to that is yes you are right if I break your rules I should be punished but how about I do house work cutting the grass cleaning the car other things that do not invole spanking. Do you have a cell phone I am sure they pay for that right.They can take that away for a week or so. You in turn most start to grown up. If you want your parents to treat you like an adult then you must behave like one. This whole converation just might open there eye’s and see that you are going up. How do you see yourself and how do they see you? Do you have a girlfriend? Now having said all this you must go about this the right way. You must have not this talk when you are about to get a spanking that would not be a good idea because you might get the worst spanking of your life. This talk you have is when everyone is calm and there has been no spanking for awhile. Also you talk calmly it is a question not a demand and if that does not work what if you were to say “If you were to spank me one more time I will leave college and find my own place to live. And be serious about it. It might open there eye’s seeing that you are grown up. Or will that cause them to spank you. You know your parents I am sure you can find a way. How about aunts and uncles do they know that this is going on? Ask them for help. Last point on this do you look at the spankings as spankings or abuse if it abuse
Jul 06, 2011
Yvan
by: Dave
You asked if you could see all comment lefted on the topic yes you can. All you have to do is once you have finish with your comment just check of send me notice when someone leave a new comment and you will recieve all comment every time someone leave one.As for if you want to read more about spanking teenagers and scroll down to find what you are looking for. So when you are leaving a comment you may want to use a different name so your friends will not know its you.
Jul 06, 2011
Yvan
by: Dave
What happen to you or have you been busy. I was waiting for your response. I forgot to tell you its ok for you write to me about your storys of being spanked. You said your sister is not spanked why not was she ever spanked and if so how was she spanked. Do your friends know you still get spanked and if so what do they think or do you keep it to yourself. What about the spankings are they done in private or are you spanked in front of everyone. Nexted when you are spanked are you allowed to squirm meaning moving around over your dad’s knee and protecting your bottom with your hands what happens if you do these things.
Jul 05, 2011
Your last reply
by: yvan
Thank you so much for your kind and speedy reply. I agree with you. There are a lot of things that I can control but that goes both ways. My parents are punishing me because they find I have attitudes and I am obstinate and stubborn. What can you do in this case? You emphasize that I must assert myself more and behave like a 21 years old grown-up. You’re perfectly right. I try my best but it’s easy to say but hard to put into day to day practice. I reckon that I am lacking a lot in self-esteem and in self-confidence. I must add that I feel too compliant concerning these corporal punishments. As strange as it might be, I came to accept these corporal punishements with a kind of relief,if not witha kind od indifference. Most of the times.I am aroused before and after a spanking. Don’t get me wrong, I hate being spanked. It’s really painful. I always squirm. bawl and howl like a baby, but after,I enjoy the tingling on my red fanny. I look at my red bottom in he mirror and and every time I am jerking off. I know that it’s not normal for a young man of my age. I like to regress to infancy and fell comfortable and relieved when on dad’s lap. I get also the feeling of being tamed and subdued. It’s,as I can see it, an exercise where I experience my total vulnerability and where I meet the two main life strenghts: power and sex.
I want now to answer your two questions
1) My 18 years old sister is very mature for her age. She doesn’t need to be spanked.I have seen her being scolded or reprimanded,but never spanked. Besides, Dad is of the old school You never punish physically a young lady.
2) Yes, I got corporal punishments at the Catholic junior college I attended. My parents knew it, and this was the reason why they enrolled us in this junior college. In the first years, it was not to bad. Although the strap was less and less used on the palm of the senior students, I found the way to get it three times, once at 17 for faul langusge and the same year for improper behaviour with another classmate(fondling) and at 19 for trying to cheat (plagiarism)n in a geometry exam. The prefect, because of my age, called mum to get the authorization to punish me. I got it and was so ashamed for I was about to graduate.
Well, thank you again for your wise advice. I will surely try to put it into practice.
I look forward to your reply. So long
Cheers,
Yves
Jul 04, 2011
Yvan
by: Dave
Ok let me try to answer your question what I met byyou are a grown 21 man getting a bare bottom spanking like you were 2 years old that is not fair. To be honest I was shocked I wrote that because I am all for spanking no matter the age. I guess I am changing my idea’s. No its not that it one thing to talk about giving a grown man a spanking but actual doing it’s completeing different. I guess I have to go back to my straight forward talk and thinking. It’s your parents house your parents rules. Plain and sible right right. If you do not want to get spank well believe it or not you control that.Yes you do How you may say well its quite simple Yvan you do not want to get spanked and behave young man. Otherwise you will keep on getting spanked. and while we are still talking about spankings why is it that you and your brothers get spanked not your sister? are you sure about this or is it like a family rule the get spanked until who knows when and the girls until what age? that not right.But there’s nothing you can do about that. The other point I had was you can go to other site’s that talk about college students getting spanked and those site’s are Experience Project and the other site is fitlife. At what age were you when you were getting spanked at that riligious college did your parents know this was going on. And how did those spankings go or were they paddling with a paddle. If you have not notice I have a thing for spanking I find them interesting as much I would like to go on with this conversation we have to move on to other things that I found in your response comment. Let get one thing straight Yvan people treat you how you allow them to treat you. Stand up for yourself look yourself in the mirror and say I am a man it does not matter how tall you are how much you wieght how much hair you have on your body. Whats really go on there’s is more than what you are tell me. Speak you and let it out. Have you ever tried loans and bersirous from the college do not mind my spelling I think faster than I can write it down.
Jul 04, 2011
To Dave
by: yvan
Dear Dave,
Thank you so much for your thoughtful advice, I am working now part time in a grocery store but I don’t earn enough to envision to live on my own and obviously to pay for my tuition in September. I would surely have to depend one or two more years on dad’s dime. The home rules will always stay the same with the same corporal punishments in cas of violation. To answer your questions: yes. my two younger brothers aged 17, 15 are spanked the same way as I am, but not my sister (18). As I told you, I don’t mind too much because I am used to corporal punishments at school( I got the strap a lot in the religious college I attended) and at home. I know that my parents are in a rut and they will never change. As long as I live under their roof and I am dependent emotionally and financially of them I will be liable to bare bottom spankings.My house, my rules whatever old you are.
There are two sentences in your comment that I don’t understand. Please what do you mean by these entences.
…” you are 21 come off it a grown man having your pants and underwears pulled out and spanked… What do you mean? I don’t look or feel like a grown man (5″ 3′, 136 pounds) and I am easy to handle on dad’s lap. I began to shave for good at the end of my 18th year and I am still hairless on my chest and legs. I still enjoy wearing short shorts at college and show off as much of my pasty thighs and legs that I can.
and this sentence:
…and I am not sure might maybe fitlife please let me know, and to know others students that are getting spanked… I don’t undertand at all what you mean because English is not my mother language. Please explain more extensively your thought.
Finally, I would like to know more about you and would be interessed in futher exchanging with you on this subject. Thanks again
Cheers
Yvan
Jul 03, 2011
Yvan
by: Dave
Yvan as I see it its time for you to grow up.As I always say if you know the rules of the house by do you break them? And if you knew the punishment for breaking the rules were getting a bare bottom spankink so then why break them. It really does not matter how tall you are it’s all in your head. I think that its time for you find a job and start to pay for college yourself and at least convice your parents to stop spanking you. You are 21 come off it a grown man having your pants and underwear pulled and spanked like a two year old. I think its time for you to grow up and act your age and I think you going back home is not a good thing for you maybe your parents still see you as a child. Even thou I beleave in discipline and bare bottom spanks if you break the rules but it comes a time to stop.
I would be interested to know whether if your brothers and sister still get spanked that way and how old are they. And yes you can find other site’s of college students still getting spanked you can find it here and Expereince project and I am not to sure might maybe fitlife please let me know. and to know other students that are getting spanked but they do not know you are getting spanked