Dadi Gulzar – 2nd March 2013 - Gyan Sarovar
Question and Answer
Q. If Brahma Baba were to see all of the Double Foreigners now, what do you think Baba would say and do?
Baba is anyway merged in our hearts and we are merged in his heart. Baba merges each one in his heart and gives a lot of
love. The greatest love is the love of the heart. Baba has so much love for each child. If he would meet us now he couldn’t
put all of us on His lap, yet he would give so much love through the eyes that each one would experience that Baba has
merged me in his heart and filled me with love. There would be the experience of his arms embracing each one.
We hear about Brahma Baba, about how he would do things and how he was so virtuous, as though he was complete to
start with. He would make effort by making us make effort. We children were always in front of Baba and when he gave us
love and such experiences, each and every child would actually experience Shiv Baba’s love. Who is Baba and what does
He wish? Baba has so much hope in each child and we should have great love for Brahma Baba and Shiv Baba. He made
effort with so much love that it seemed he never made effort. When we love someone we never forget them. Look how
many times in the murli, Brahma Baba would use the word Baba… Baba, Baba. What is the meaning of this? There was so
much love for Shiv Baba in Brahma Baba’s heart that as soon as he mentioned Shiv Baba we would experience Shiv Baba’s
love too. Do we have to make laborious effort? Effort should always be easy - not difficult. It is fixed and final that we will
receive the reward of 21 births through the effort of this one birth. We can receive Baba’s love with every beat of our hearts.
When we realise Baba is Baba and we have faith in Baba and the relationship is firm then we merge in love. When Baba
comes, we cannot prevent ourselves from saying, “Sweet Baba, Beloved Baba”. Is this true for you? No one here is failing
in love! It may be number wise in efforts for gyan and yoga, but if you didn’t have love for Baba why would you come here?
It is because of your love for Baba that you have reached here. Every time Baba comes there is a gathering of Double
Foreigners - this is a sign of your love for Baba. It may not be so easy for you to get here but you forget that and become
full of enthusiasm when you reach here.
Q. How can we use this love to move forward in gyan and yoga so that it doesn’t seem to be an effort?
Think: Who is Baba? How much time does He give us? Important people do not give time to simple people. But Baba gives
even more time to the simple ones. He always wants to meet the new ones who have just come. He has a lot of love for the
children and He makes the new ones stand up. We are the ones who are loved most of all. It isn’t when we are old He
doesn’t love us. Everyone has their turn and we are merged in His love. Baba says that if you have more love for someone
then it is not always demonstrated – rather it is merged in the heart and there is no feeling of separation. It is difficult to
forget one who is merged in the heart.
Q. Perhaps we should not use the word ‘purusharat’ or ‘effort’?
Why not use this word for effort, as it implies attainment. If we don’t make effort we will not receive attainment. Baba says.
Who would attract me? One who makes effort. Effort should not be laborious – it is about producing the experience of
meeting BapDada.
Q. The programme for Double Foreigners is ‘What is Baba whispering in our ears?’ What are the signals and how should we
be moving according to these? Which particular thing is Baba whispering in our ears to focus on?
Baba says, ‘Beloved sweet children, you are merged in my heart’. He says this with so much depth and sincerity that it feels
as though He is saying this personally to each one. These words of Baba are filled with love. We are deeply merged in
Baba’s love and whoever is merged in the heart is filled with love.
Q. What do you pay special attention to Dadi?
I am paying attention to the fact that there is very little time. Baba has been using this word ‘suddenly’ to warn us. When He
uses this term we must understand that we must be ever ready. We must make effort and we must understand that
anything can happen suddenly. We will not be able to make effort at that time. Always think that this is my last moment for
making effort. We cannot say we will do this later on.
Q. It is the last moments for making effort, not just the last moment for our bodies. Can you go into the depth of this?
Now we have received the news that Kunj Dadi has left the body. Anything can happen suddenly and I should always think
that it is my last moment for making effort so that if the end comes at any time I will get the reward of intense effort. I should
be so ready that at every moment my stage remains the way Baba wants it to be. Dadi Janki tells us that anything can
happen suddenly so I have to pay close attention to every moment considering it my last moment. My final stage of effort
needs to be present now. Q. How can we give donation of yoga to a soul who has just left the body? What is the mechanism through which we can
do this?
Donation of yoga means we should be in Baba’s remembrance and if my remembrance is powerful then the impact of that
remembrance helps the soul. Due to illness, pain and forms of discomfort there can be an effect on the mind and at such a
time if we are in yoga for the benefit of that soul, they will experience that they are receiving power and good wishes from
everyone.
Q. Can you tell us the story of being with Brahma Baba. When you came to Baba at the age of 8, what did you experience ?
I was about 11 or 12 when I came, with great enthusiasm, to the spiritual boarding school Baba had opened. Baba had
invoked the children and I experienced that when I reached there it was as if someone had been remembering me and I was
welcomed with a great deal of love. It did not seem new or that I saw Him for the first time. We felt so much love and
feeling. When he met us Baba’s face was filled with so much love, as if he had been our personal father for many births.
There was no sense of being with a stranger. It felt as though this is my father; he always was and always would be... From
my depth I felt he was my father. It didn’t seem at all that I would have to make effort. Instantly there was the experience
that he was mine and would always be mine.
Q. When Baba saw you what did he tell you?
He first looked at me with a lot of love and said, ‘Come child, beloved child’. It was as if he recognised me and I recognised
him, and it was not for the first time. We met as if we had always known each other and as if the remembrance of the
previous kalpa was present, right there. When he would say ‘child’, it was filled with magic.
Q. When you were very small Baba told you that through your eyes you would do a lot of service…
When I met Baba, He met me as if we had been separated and then had met again, not as if we were meeting for the first
time. He didn’t love me with a physical embrace but with drishti. I felt I really knew Him and He knew me. From His eyes
there was the feeling that we recognised each other right away. There was no feeling of coming to a new person, that he
was the main person in the house… nothing like that. Baba seemed to me to be very beloved. The first time we met and
since then… He is mine and I belong to Him
Q. We also feel this when we meet Baba - that we recognise Him right away.
When we see Baba for the first time there is definitely a strong attraction to Baba. Now Brahma Baba is not in the physical
form but he comes into this body. I have seen the form of Brahma Baba and it felt that yes, he is mine.
Q. We also have this feeling about you Dadi, even now, that you also belong to us and we belong to you.
This is very nice as we are all companions. I give you a lot of congratulations for this. When I am in remembrance it would
be Baba who would come in your vision and you would remember Baba, not me. Is this right?
Q. But when we see you we get the feeling of you, and recognise your brightness and your eyes.
So, if all of you could develop this feeling for each other and we are all old souls together, then we will have much less
maya. This is the speciality of the Dadi’s and is also Baba’s wonder. When you get up in the morning, see Baba, and when
you go to sleep, see Baba. In between, and in every second, keep the feeling of ‘My Baba’. This is the blessing to take
away with you. Make this a permanent practise and before you eat first offer to Baba. Before doing any task remember
Baba. Baba has given us great ways to remember Him so there is no opportunity to forget Baba throughout the day. The
attention to pay is to keep Baba in your heart, because can you forget anything that is in your heart. Merge Him in your
heart. Remove anything bad from your heart by remembering Baba. Before you start your work, be in Baba’s
remembrance and then work. You will experience success. Then there will be the practise of continuous remembrance and
you are unable to forget Baba. We met Baba in our childhood and so we couldn’t forget him. He was so sweet and
attractive that even our eyes could not forget Baba. I think that continuous remembrance is not difficult when we make it a
practise. It becomes natural and does not involve any effort. Whatever we love we cannot forget. Again and again we
remember. We have so much attainment from Baba. It is difficult to forget! So it is easy for us all! How can your father be
difficult to remember? We come into Baba’s gyan through His drishti. Make the practise of first remembering Baba before
starting anything and then you won’t experience any difficulty. From tomorrow make this a habit. Create this habit and see.
Achcha… Baba, Baba… and merge in Baba.
Now everyone has accepted that remembrance is very easy! From tomorrow never think, how should I remember Baba?
He is merged in my heart! Put two hands up for merging Baba in your heart… all the way to the depths of your heart! So
now don’t take him out of your heart and keep your heart exclusively for Baba. This means you are combined with Baba.
He is in my heart and this means He is with me. If other things come it means you are alone. Do not allow this as the enemy attack swhen she sees that we are alone. When Maya sees we are combined she will get disheartened and leave
us alone. We are combined. The Supreme Soul has made this offer to you Himself and so you can never experience being
alone. Forget anything else but don’t forget Baba.
Om Shanti
Statistics: Posted by hope — Mon Mar 04, 2013 3:09 am